...For the Love of Music

In Pursuit...

2011-09-16T11:18:00.000-07:00

It's amazing how unbelievably huge our universe is. For instance, it would take 180,000 years to travel from one side of our galaxy to the other, if we were moving at the speed of light. And, that's just our galaxy. Scientists now believe our universe is made up of trillions of galaxies. Not to mention the vast space between each galaxy. And, that space is increasing at an ever increasing pace. It's mind blowing, actually.

And, light. Let's talk about light for a second.

Light moves at 186,000 miles a second. To put that in perspective, light could circle Earth seven times in one second. That's about 6 Trillion miles in one year. To the sun and back more than 30,000 times. That's fast!

You still with me?

As fast and mind blowing as light is, an even more amazing fact is that it is always traveling at the same speed regardless of the motion of objects. In other words, it's always pursuing objects at the same rate of speed, no matter how fast those particular objects are going. If you're traveling at 1,000 miles a second, away from light, it is still pursuing you at 186,000 miles per second. The motion of the observer is irrelevant.

Amazing, right?

Well, I see God's pursuit of His children similarly. His pursuit of us is non dependent on our motion of movement from or to Him. I think so many of us equate time with distance. We feel that if it's been some time since we've connected with God, then He must be far away. Or, we feel His distance is in direct correlation with things we've done. The worse the act, the further away He is. And worse yet, what if we've done something really bad and allowed a lot of time to pass? Then, God must be too far away, right?

No. His pursuit of us is greater than that of light. No matter how fast we move from HIM, it is impossible to outrun Him. He's right there. All we have to do is simply turn around. Repent. And, God says if we confess the things we've done to Him, He is faithful and just to forgive us and purify us from all unrighteousness. He takes our wrong doing, sin, and separates it from us as far as the east sky is from the west. Notice how He didn't say north from south. That's because if you head north and you pass the north pole you'll begin heading south. The same is true if you head south and pass the south pole you'll begin heading north. However, if you head east and keep going all the way around the planet, you'll always be heading east, you'll never head west. The same is true if you head west. East to west is an infinite line that goes on forever. And, once we confess and repent, God says He separates our sin that far. He goes on to say that He drops it in the sea of forgetfulness and remembers it no more! Pretty awesome, right?

So, why do we not take full advantage of it? I believe the most common reason is that we just don't know how loved we actually are. I believe that if we truly knew how much God really does love us, there would be almost nothing we couldn't accomplish with His help. The creator of light itself and everything else has actually numbered the hairs on your head. He loves you so much, my friend.

I remember one night many years ago, I was praying while driving. I had an open sunroof in my car that night and I kept looking up toward the stars while I was praying. As if God was way up there. I'll never forget God's voice. It wasn't audible, but still pretty loud. He spoke this to my heart. "Why are you looking out there? I'm right here, next to you."

But, Joe, if you had any idea what I've done or how long it's been?

I wish I could somehow convince you that it just doesn't matter. He's right there, next to you. All you have to do is turn around!

One of my favorite CDs this year is the new one from Matt Maher, "The Love In Between" On that CD is a great song, "Turn Around" that drives home this point.

Well I won't say, that you will never fail again
But there is graceTo wash away your every sin
If you're scared that you don't matter
If you're lost and need to be found
If you're looking for a Savior All you gotta do is turn around

To find out more about Matt Maher and his newest project, please click here; http://mattmahermusic.com/

If I can be praying for you, please don't hesitate to let me know; joeb@newlifemedia.org

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org (WBGL,WIBI & WCIC) We work very hard to honor God through serving you. Your input is very important to us and decisions are made regularly, based on the opinions you have. To assure that your opinion is being heard, please join our Music Advisory Panel today. Click on your station for a direct link. Thanks!
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Healing

2011-06-17T13:44:00.000-07:00

So many times looking back over my life, I so wanted the healing process to just speed up. Even totally skip it, if it at all possible. On so many occasions I grew so impatient with God, just wanting Him to heal me already. I didn't like or want to deal with the pain of the process. I had slowly convinced myself that the pain wasn't worth the perceived little growth it yielded. That's why I was blown away the other day listening to Luminate's new song, "Healing In Your Arms." God is so unbelievably good to us.

This whole time I've been so hard on God and myself, believing that healing would never fully come. Then, right out of the blue, comes this unprecedented evidence that healing had been taking place all along. Sure, I know that God is a God of restoration and that He was healing me. And I could show you countless pieces of evidence of that very healing in my own life. But, I live with my own shortcomings, and they are undeniable evidence that healing still hasn't completely run its course. I lived with the belief that I may take my last breath and still not be fully recovered from the painful experiences of my past. And, that still may be true.

However, God used a circumstance a couple of weeks back to completely bless me with an amazing gift. I had not seen my biological mother in nearly sixteen years. In fact, I had only spent a handful of hours with her over the past thirty years. When I saw her sixteen years ago, it became evident pretty quickly that I was not ready for that reunion. It brought back way too much pain. Pain I had long buried. I couldn't see it at the time, but it was all part of HIS plan. You can't deal with something that's buried. It had to be dug up to be dealt with.

So, when I saw a facebook friend request from my biological mother late last year, my heart leaped into my throat. Sure I missed her and wanted to know how she was doing, but didn't know if I was ready to deal with all the other stuff. Plus, I wasn't sure how much I could trust her. After praying about it, I accepted her friend request. We slowly became re acquainted with each other and although she was very respectful of my wishes, I was still very distant and pushed back any attempt by her to get close. I was content to leave our relationship in the world of facebook, until a photo changed my life.

It was an old, worn out black and white picture of my mom, dad and me. I was about five months old and my mother was pregnant with my brother. When I looked at the photo for the very first time, I wept. Something about that photo hit me so hard. I always knew my mom was young when I was born, but seeing it, well that was different. You see, I have a daughter who is 10 and she's not much younger than my mother in the photograph. God immediately moved on my heart and allowed my eyes to be open. How can I hold my mother responsible, for the rest of her life, for things she did as a teenager? After all, I had forgiven her already anyhow. My heart broke for her in that moment and I knew I would have to go and see her. I wanted her to know that I had, indeed, forgiven her.

Tara and I set in motion a plan that would bring my mom back into my life. We packed up the family and took a trip south. I tried not to think about the ramifications the visit would have on me. The last time I saw mom, it literally took me years to fully get past what had been stirred up emotionally. Plus, I thought this whole time I was doing this for her. What I also didn't realize is that God was about to show me the work He had been doing in me over the past sixteen years. He was about to present me with an incredible gift.

Seeing my mom so happy brought such joy to my heart. She told us she hadn't slept at all nights before our arrival, because she was so excited and nervous. Tara felt blessed to spend some time with the woman who brought her husband into this world and couldn't believe how much our kids, especially our boys, look so much like her. At the end of our first day, I asked my mom how she was doing. She said it had been the best day she had ever had. She called it "Perfect."

It wasn't until after we had said goodbye and headed home, that I began to notice this gift that God had so nonchalantly left for me. Normally, after a visit like this, or anything to do with my past really, I have to fight off deep depression and other hard to explain feelings. When I finally realized I wasn't fighting any this time, it scared me. I knew I should be experiencing something negative. I always had. But as I sought God and talked it out with Tara, God began to show me the reason I wasn't experiencing the, so typical, painful feelings.

Healing.

Leading up to this trip, I really believed that God was orchestrating this whole plan totally for my mom. I never gave a second thought about this being about anything else. But God being so good to me used it as an opportunity to show me just how much ground had been gained. How much work He had done. And although I'm not totally sure where this relationship with mom will end up and I still need to proceed with caution, I'm so grateful for the ground God has already won back. Sometimes, we're just way too close to see the growth. When you're in the trenches, it's so hard to see the ground you're winning. And no matter how it feels or where you think you are, God has promised to never leave us nor forsake us. And HE won't. We just need to trust trust HIM to the best of our ability and He'll carry us the distance we can't walk. He's always at work. We just have to be obedient to what He's asking of us.

If I can be praying for you, please don't hesitate to let me know; joeb@newlifemedia.org

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org (WBGL,WIBI & WCIC) We work very hard to honor God through serving you. Your input is very important to us and decisions are made regularly, based on the opinions you have. To assure that your opinion is being heard, please join our Music Advisory Panel today. Click on your station for a direct link. Thanks!
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At the Speed of Life...

2011-06-06T13:39:00.000-07:00

It never ceases to amaze me how fast time seems to slip by at an increasing pace. With each passing year, time appears to move faster than the year before. If only someone had warned me when I was younger.

I spent so much time living just beyond the moment I was in. Biding my time, just existing, until the next great moment arrived. You know, that moment, event, or happening that would, of course, be the best thing ever! That's how I would build it up in my mind. And the closer I would get to the event, the bigger and better it would become in my head.

This would lead to such depression, because no matter what it was, that I was waiting for, it always went by much too fast and never quite lived up to my grand expectations. In fact, on many occasions, the "looking forward" was more enjoyable than the event itself. More and more I found myself increasingly disappointed.

That was until Tara and I had our very first date, 19 years ago today. A day that I had been looking forward to and anticipating about for the better part of the prior month. I can remember that day like it was yesterday. It's hard to imagine there was a time when I was nervous about being with Tara. The awkward first days together. I had been to her house many times over the previous several months. I had had conversations with her parents on several occasions. I had been out with Tara with others from the youth group.

But, this was different. This was a date. As I walked to her front door, I had to walk past the garage. This particular day, Tara's dad was working in the garage. Not because he had stuff to do, but that he was going to be the first line of defense between me and his daughter. I had never, on any occasion, felt intimidated by her dad, until this day. I remember the stern look he gave me as he firmly shook my hand and wouldn't let go as he said "There are three thing you'll know if you're going to take out my daughter.

"First, you'll treat her like a lady.
Two, you will have her in on time.
And, three, if your car leaks oil, get it off my drive!" Although my car didn't leak oil, I wasn't taking any chances, I didn't park on the drive for a long time thereafter.

That first date was truly one of the first days in my entire life that lived up to the expectations I had created in my mind. And, I can honestly tell you that with each passing year, it only gets better and better. I'm more in love with her today than I've ever been and if given a thousand lifetimes, wouldn't have enough time to properly thank God for her.

Sure, Like many of us, I still find myself from time to time living outside the moment I'm in. But, during those times, God will use Tara or my kids to gently remind me to live "in the moment."

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)

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2011-05-06T11:11:00.000-07:00

It's mind blowing to think about how very fast time is slipping by. It seems like just yesterday that I was battling these same feelings as we headed into Mother's Day, 2010. One would think, with each year that passes, it would get easier. And, in a way it does. I can look back and see the slight growth that happened as I've pursued after HIM. But, pain is pain. And, when that pain runs deeper than surface wounds, it just takes time. A whole lot of time. And, you know what? It's okay. It took me a long time to realize that.

I hope you have an amazing Mother's Day and if there is pain that gets in the way, please don't beat yourself up. There's nothing wrong with you. Just ask God to help you navigate through this. He will. You're not alone, my friend.

Here's my blog post from last year. As I reread it, I found it to be encouraging. I hope you, too, are encouraged today. Happy Mother's Day!

If I were completely honest with you, I would tell you that this past week has been extremely difficult. It shouldn't really surprise me. After all, it's each year at this time I deal with emotions I can barely keep below the surface. For as long as I can remember, it's been the most difficult time of year for me. And, it all pertains to what is happening on Sunday.

Now, for so many, Sunday will be a wonderful day full of family and joy with amazing moments of reminiscing through great memories. Sure, there will be stress, but for the most part, it will be a day some are really looking forward to. And, if that's you, I hope it's everything you hope it will be.

But, for others, this will be one of the most difficult weekends of the year. There are countless different reasons as to why this day will be so difficult for so many. For me, it's because of the abuse I experienced as a child. And, like clockwork, it hits me each year starting a few weeks before the big day. I can't understand why I can't just get past it. I am so richly blessed. God has brought such incredible healing to my life. He's also brought so many "moms" who have stepped in and graciously filled that role in my life. Not to mention my incredible wife who is a fantastic mother to our four children. So, why can't I just man up and get over it?

I was having this very discussion with my wife, Tara, last night. And, right in the midst of our conversation, she said something so very profound. She said "If you didn't have this hurt from the way your mom treated you, then it would mean my job is pointless. That pain you continually battle, because of the abuse you experienced as a child, serves as a reminder of how important my job really is."

Wow. I guess I knew that. But, to hear those words framed in that way reminded me of how extremely important our job as parents really is. And, I do believe it is the most important job on the planet. So, even though this Mother's Day will carry with it some pain, I still appreciate the incredible job that God-honoring Moms everywhere are doing. I celebrate that. Thank you, moms.

If Mother's Day is also a very hard day for you, please don't beat yourself up about it. And, if I can be praying for you, please don't hesitate to let me know - joeb@newlifemedia.org

Remember, God loves you so very much!

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)

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Nothing Special...

2011-04-21T14:44:00.000-07:00

I think it's something that's ingrained in us from birth. From early on, we all want and need to know there is something about us that stands out from those around us. Many will work longer and harder, many times spinning their wheels, just to help them feel a little less average. Because, let's face it, average just isn't good enough. We all want to feel special.

But, by it's very definition, to be special means that someone isn't. Right?

I spent so much of my time as a child, dreaming about what it would be like to feel special. I wanted someone, anyone, to think that I was something more than just ordinary. But I wasn't and I knew it. I was reminded of it everywhere I turned. So, I grew up thinking I would never amount to anything meaningful. There was no hope, because it was driven into me at an early age that ordinary people don't do extraordinary things. So, what happens to those of us who don't believe we're special?

I think one of two things. One, we end up working so hard our entire lives to hold on and recapture those brief moments of feeling special. Or two, we fade into the night.

We've all been sold a lie. We believe that we have to be beautiful and extraordinary to be useful in society. Many feel, like I did, that God could never use someone so far from special. And as result, we hold back. We stop listening for His voice because we figure He's not talking to us anyhow. So we squelch our dreams and do our best to just get through each day, hoping we'll somehow be at least as good as ordinary.

But the Bible is chalked full of examples of God using plain old ordinary people to do extraordinary things. And I've come to believe that in and of ourselves, we can't even reach average. However once we surrender our lives to Him, He can do immeasurable more than we could ever ask or imagine, according to His Power at work in us.

There's a song we've recently started playing across our network that has become a life anthem for me. It's called, "Anthem For The Ordinary" by a new artist, Evan Milby. I love the line from his song, "Stop waiting to be better, you're already more than enough. Because you're all that love needs to turn this world around." It's such a great reminder for me, because so many times I find myself thinking that one day when I have it all together I might be usable for God. I tend to forget that God is already at work in us even as flawed as we are. He wants to do something extraordinary through you and me.

If you want to find out more about Evan Milby or hear this amazing new song, please click here; http://www.myspace.com/evanmilby

If you also find it difficult to understand how God could do extraordinary things through you, I would be so honored to stand in prayer with you. God really does have pretty amazing things for you to accomplish. Looking for proof? Check out these verses;

Ephesians 3:20 - Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us

Jeremiah 29:11 - For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

Ephesians 2:10 - For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.

Psalm 37:23 - The steps of a man are established by the LORD, And He delights in his way.

Proverbs 3:5-6 - Trust in the LORD with all your heart. And do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.

Isaiah 41:10 - So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

Psalm 32:8 - I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you.

God does love you so much, my friend. He deeply cares for you. If you're in need of prayer today, please don't hesitate to let me know; joeb@newlifemedia.org

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)We work very hard to honor God through serving you. Your input is very important to us and decisions are made regularly, based on the opinions you have. To assure that your opinion is being heard, please join our Music Advisory Panel today. Click on your station for a direct link. Thanks!
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What Can I Say?

2011-03-11T09:16:00.000-08:00

We've all be there, right? In a place where we are desperately seeking for some kind of magic words to bring comfort to someone in pain. But, more times than not, there's not a lot we can say that hasn't already been said. There's not a lot we can say that aren't just words.

I found myself there recently. A close-up view of devastation completely tearing a loved one's world apart. It's the phone call we all never want to receive.

It was a normal Sunday, during football season. Plans had been made and the house was full of friends watching playoff football. When I saw the caller-id, I just figured it was a call to comment on the game. However, the moment I answered, I knew immediately that something was wrong. I had never heard that tone before. I knew what was to follow had nothing to do with the game.

Over the next several moments, my world came unglued. The request to put the phone on speaker and have Tara with me meant this news was going to be tough to take. We huddled in my son's bedroom, away from the noise, and listened in shock as tear filled words were slowly delivered. My little nephew, Seth, had suddenly and without warning passed away.

So many things went through my mind. Jumbled thoughts, really. We were so close to Brian and Angie. Our kids are all the around the same ages. We had walked through so much together and it had already been a very tough year for them. How could this be? What could we do?

Over the past month and a half, God has showed us how to better love Brian, Angie and their boys. It's been hard for us, but we can't even imagine what it's got to be like for them. I've found myself so often in a place where I just can't find words. There just aren't any. I want to desperately to take away their pain to somehow say something that will make them feel better. But, there just aren't any words. So, I pray. And, I do the best I can to communicate, sometimes without words, that I'm praying. Praying them through.

I think sometimes our mentality is that when all else fails, let's pray. When we can't do anything else, we'll just pray. But, prayer is not the last resort - it's the first and most powerful thing we can do. Because nothing else we could ever do on our own would ever be enough.

God reminds me of this all the time, especially every time I hear the new song from Sixteen Cities, "Pray You Through" There is such incredible truth in this amazing song. When I heard it for the first time, I loved it, but, I had no idea it would end up meaning so much to me. I appreciate these guys and the way God is using them to bring such encouragement to those who find themselves in uncertain and painful places in their lives.

If you are need of encouragement today or want to share your story, Sixteen Cities have set up a great place to do just that. Check this out; www.prayyouthrough.com If you would like to find out more about Sixteen Cities, or hear this amazing song, please click here; http://sixteencities.com/

If you do find yourself in a similar situation today. Prayer is powerful. And, I'm so honored to pray for you. If you're in need of prayer today, please don't hesitate to let me know; joeb@newlifemedia.org

How Many Times...

2011-01-20T09:59:00.000-08:00

When I was eighteen I found myself at an extremely important crossroad. Years of continuous hurt and abuse had led me to a very dangerous place. I spent my days just trying to numb the pain enough to get through each day. I was teetering over the edge. Something had to give.

God had been nudging me, ever so gently, toward an inevitable decision. I could either spend the rest of my life running from the pain, or be obedient to what God was asking me to do. To assure I was hearing His directive loud and clear, He placed key people in my path to speak words of truth into my life. My task: forgive those that hurt me.

At first, I fought this very hard. There was no way I wanted to forgive any of them. I couldn't let them off the hook. With everything they had done to me, I could never do that for them. They would take this to their grave. I wasn't ever going to forgive them.

The conflict raged on inside me. It was tearing me apart. I found myself obsessing about it. I wanted revenge. I wanted to hurt them for all they had done to me. And, as much as my hatred grew, I hated even more the way it made me feel. The way it chased me into the very person I didn't want to become.

I kept running from it, until one night I was listening to my Christian radio station and heard the song "How Many Times" by Whiteheart. I had heard that song many times before that, but this time I heard it differently than at anytime before. And, it was really one line that hit me.

“You bled from a broken heart and I was to blame”

I knew in that moment that I had to go and forgive those that had hurt me. It took a little time to work up the courage, and I'll never forget the way I felt the first time I found myself face to face with someone who had hurt me so much. I felt sick. I was so torn, even at the very moment of truth. But, with God's help and strength, I was able to follow through. And, even though it wasn't received well at all, something extraordinary happened inside of me. I felt it almost immediately. It surprised me. I had been so focused on not wanting to set them free, it never crossed my mind that it was me that needed to be set free.

God is so amazing and so good to us. Looking back, my only regret is that I had fought God for so long. He knows what's best for us. I just needed to trust Him more. That single event has forever changed my life. God had been wanting to bring healing into my life, but I had been fighting Him. With that one act of forgiveness, the healing process took off like wildfire. It's not always been easy and forgiveness is a process not just a single event. But, God blessed the effort and continues to give me the strength I need to live in that forgiveness.

There's a new song you're going to start hearing in February that I'm so excited

about. It's called "7x70" by Chris August, the same artist that brought us the hit song, "Starry Night" and I know this song is going to impact lives in amazing ways. The same way "How Many Times" changed my life. From the first moment I heard "7x70",

I just knew it was one of those songs that was going to need to be shared. Even after all these years, this song impacted me in a profound way and reminded me the importance of living out our forgiveness.

Click here to see the official music video and hear this amazing song; http://bcove.me/na38qth2

If you are holding onto unforgiveness, please don't wait another day to let God help you find the healing you need, through forgiving those that have hurt you. You can trust Him. He does love you so much!

Happy New Year!

2011-01-07T12:18:00.000-08:00

I remember, like it was yesterday, thinking about how far off into the future the year 2000 was. And, now we're starting our second decade of the 200o's. Time does pass so very quickly. The years stack up quicker and quicker. And, the more years that pass the more I realize just how important it is to make the most of the time that we have left.

That is just one of the reasons we work so hard at serving you. We want to make sure that the time you spend listening to Family Friendly Radio is time well spent. One of the ways we are able to do this is by making sure you have a voice and your voice is heard. One of the ways we're able to do this is through our Music Advisory Panel. It's a tool that you can use to help us serve you better. It's totally free and won't take up much of your valuable time. But, the investment will be more than worth it.

Twice a month we ask our Music Advisory Panel how they feel about particular songs they hear on our radio station. We ask them to rate each song they hear and let us know how often they want to hear that particular song. We also ask questions that help us get to know you better, so that we can do an even better job of serving you. There's also an open ended comments section at the end of each survey, so you can share with us anything on your mind.

If you have never become a Music Advisory Panel Member, can I ask you to consider becoming a member today? Again, it's totally free and you'll have access to have your thoughts and opinions heard. Decisions are made regularly based on the information we receive through our panel members. If you're interested in getting signed up, please simply click on the radio station you listen to; WBGL WCIC WIBI

Thank you so much! Also, if you are already a panel member, thank you! You're truly helping us serve you even better. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to let me know. You can drop me an email today at; joeb@newlifemedia.org

Happy New Year!

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director. www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC
)
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Christmas 2010

2010-12-02T11:16:00.000-08:00

Christmas Music 2010

Again, this year, we kicked our Christmas off the Friday following Thanksgiving. It's become our family's tradition. My kids can barely contain their excitement as the day draws near. We make a complete mess of the house, dragging boxes out from basement. What fun. What great memories that are built each year. This year, I couldn't help but realize that these days are numbered. My kids are getting older and each passing year is like a mile marker of miles stretching out behind us. That's why these memories are so important to me. And, the soundtrack to these memories is equally as important. And, the best mix of Christmas music is a must-have for me. But, there's always so much to choose from. And, of course, as in years past, you know you have access to the best mix of Christmas music on your Family Friendly radio station. You can also share your opinion about the music by joinng our Music Advisory Panel. Your opinion is very important to me!

(go to www.newlifemedia.org - Just click on your favorite station at the top left of page and then click on Music Advisory Panel. if you have questions or need assistance, please feel free to email me; joeb@newlifemedia.org)

If you're looking to buy some new Christmas CDs this year, but find yourself a little apprehensive with all the choices, here are a few I truly believe you will love. Again, please feel free to email me if you have any questions or need assistance - joeb@newlifemedia.org

1. DOWNHERE - "How Many Kings" - My wife and I own every CD Downhere has ever released and again this year, it's one of our favorites. From start to finish there isn't a bad moment on the entire CD. Their version of Good King Wenceslas has to be, by far, the best version I've ever heard of that song. "Five Golden Rings" is only eleven seconds long. You'll find two versions of "How Many Kings" The original is the opening track and the project closes out with the "re-imagined" version. This would be a great soundtrack for your Christmas memories this year.
Songs from this CD you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio:"How Many Kings", "God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen","Christmas In Our Hearts" & "Angels From the Realms Of Glory"

2. CHRIS TOMLIN - "Glory In The Highest" - Well, this CD has a very special place in my heart. I had the very rare privilege to participate in the recording process of this one. A year ago in June, Chris invited some friends to come out and sing in the choir as he recorded the tracks to this project. The CD was recorded at Ocean Way, a legendary studio, in Nashville, TN. It was an amazing experience! We all gathered and just worshipped God together. As I listen through the CD now, I'm blown away by how well it reflects those special moments I'll never forget. And now, you can also be apart of it as this CD will transform your car, living room, etc., to a wonderful worship experience. Although the whole CD is great, one song that really stands out for me is "Winter Snow" featuring Audrey Assad. You may actually recognize her voice, as she was the female vocalist on "More Beautiful You" by Jonny Diaz. If you're looking for a great time of Christmas worship, this CD was made for you.
Songs from this CD you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "Joy To The World (Unspeakable Joy)","Emmanuel" & "Winter Snow (Featuring Audrey Assad)"

3. Newsboys - "Christmas! A Newsboys Holiday" - Christmas, Newsboys style. This is a great new EP. If you're a Newsboys fan, this is a must-have Christmas CD, this year. Their versions of Jingle Bell Rock and Winter Wonderland are fantastic. But, it's their version of the Mariah Caray song, "All I Want For Christmas Is You" that kept me coming back for more.

Songs you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "All I Want For Christmas Is You","Winter Wonderland","Jingle Bell Rock"

4. BIG DADDY WEAVE - "Christ Is Come" - Another great Christmas CD! This one also rises to the top of the list. Great moments from start to finish. One of my personal favorites is "I'll Be Brave This Christmas" It's a track that made me stop what I was doing and really hear what was being said. After the track finished, I found myself so grateful for so much that God had done for me. And, for those who have so sacrificially put their lives on the line for each of us so we could even celebrate Christmas. I also absolutely love their version of "Joy To The World"
Songs you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "Joy To the World","O Come O Come Emmanuel" & "I'll Be Brave This Christmas"

5. WHEN LOVE WAS BORN - "Various Artists" - If you're looking for one CD that delivers great Christmas songs from your favorite artists, you may have to look no further. This compilation carries both, great classics and incredible originals. With depth from beginning to the very last note, this CD will not only bring back wonderful memories from years past, but also help build new ones for years to come.
Songs you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: Mark Schultz, Meredith Andrews, Francesca Battestelli, Point Of Grace, Big Daddy Weave, Natalie Grant, Aaron Shust, Selah, Barlowgril & Chris Sligh

6. BETHLEHEM SKYLINE 2 - Featuring Various Artists (Downhere, Jason Grey, Me In Motion and others) -The Bethlehem Skyline tour last Christmas was a highlight of my entire Christmas season. A Christmas celebration with Downhere, Lena Hale, Jason Gray and others is an amazing memory that will be tough to top. Lanae' Hale's performance of "Starving Artist Christmas" was one of my favorite moments during that show and I was happy to see that Centricity Records has included that song on their second installment in this series. Like volume one, this CD has Christmas songs that will be my favorites for years to come, including my favorite new Christmas song this year, "Give It Away" by newcomers, Me In Motion.

Songs you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "Silent Night " - Downhere, "Give It Away" - Me In Motion, "Morning Star" - Sixteen Cities,

7. Jadon Lavik - "Christmas" - From the very first time that I met Jadon, I've been a big fan. His heart for God and people far exceeds his love for music. Then, there's his talent. A very talented artist with a sound that's all his own. When I heard he was releasing a new Christmas CD this year, I couldn't wait to hear his take on some of the classics. Plus, I knew he would also bring his own original music to the project. Well, I wasn't disappointed. From start to finish, this is a fantastic Christmas project.
Songs you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "Go Tell It On The Mountain", "Silent Night", and an incredible version of "Mele Kalikimaka"

Merry Christmas...

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)
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Pizza Anyone?

2010-11-18T13:45:00.000-08:00

My wife always smiles whenever I call something a tradition. In my mind, if our family does something twice, it's officially become a tradition. I contribute this to the fact that my first ten Thanksgivings were spent with ten different families in ten different homes. And, the memories surrounding those Thanksgivings are not ones I enjoy remembering. So, needless to say I work very hard to make sure that my kids have very different memories of their childhood Thanksgivings.

The past 10 years or so we have made it a tradition to spend Thanksgiving with Tara's parent's. I feel like I won the lottery when my wife, Tara, agreed to marry me. I've always heard that you're not just marrying the person, but their family. And, I have to tell you, I got a good one! Not only is Tara more than everything I could have ever dreamed in a wife, but her family is nothing short of amazing. Their love for each other has made Thanksgiving something our whole family gets really excited about each year. Just thinking about it, I can already smell the turkey. Hands down, my favorite meal of the entire year! Tara's parents work very hard to make it a very special day for each of us. And, it's yet to disappoint.

However, last Thanksgiving almost didn't happen at all. Thanksgiving morning as we were rolling out of bed, Tara's parents called and suggested we not come over. They had been up all night with the stomach flu. They offered us all the food, but, not wanting to take any chance of getting sick, we declined.

My mind began to race. What could we do? Sure, we felt bad for Tara's parents and prayed for a speedy recovery, but how could we salvage the day? Tara's brother and his family decided to come on over to our house and after much deliberation, we decided the best course of action was to simply order a pizza. Mainly, because the only place open within a short driving distance was a gas station down the road that served pizza. I was okay with this, but slightly concerned that this may be a blemish on our kid's perfect Thanksgiving tradition record. Well, needless to say, the kids weren't phased at all by the change in plans. In fact, they talk about it as though it was a highlight of 2009.

The experience also reinforced some things God's been teaching me. I was reminded to be careful not to spend so much of my time concerned about building great memories that I miss the truly great memory opportunities. It's not about how perfect everything is set around you, but the love you have for each other. Sure, we're all excited about having a real Thanksgiving meal this year, but the funny thing is that last year's pizza Thanksgiving will be the one that stands out 25, 50 years from now.

I have several dear friends whose Thanksgiving will be quite different this year. And, for them, it goes far beyond the stomach flu. Maybe you, too, will not be celebrating your traditional Thanksgiving. Maybe, like my friends, this Thanksgiving will be filled with pain of what once was. My prayer is that, even though this Thanksgiving will not be quite the same, God meets you where you are and reminds you of just how much you mean to HIM.

Happy Thanksgiving!

If I can be praying for you, please don't hesitate to let me know; joeb@newlifemedia.org

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)
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Who Will Love Me?

2010-10-08T09:54:00.001-07:00

I see so many emails, on a regular basis, from listeners who are hurting so much. Many of whom are blaming themselves for the needless hurt caused by others. It breaks my heart as I try my best to bring even the slightest encouragement as I direct them back to the One who can really bring healing. In reading between the lines of these thoughts, a theme rings out loud and clear. They just want to know someone loves them.

Even the strongest amongst us becomes weak without love. It's the glue that holds us all together and without it, there is simply no hope. And, unfortunately, there are so many who walk through their daily life believing they are unloved. And, for many who believe they are loved, they secretly fear the love they experience is performance based.

You don't have to look very hard to find stories of people who are desperately searching for love. These stories dominate our news sources every single day. People looking for love anywhere they can find it.

So, what ever happened to unconditional love? It's so difficult to fully understand how we could be loved unconditionally in world full of conditions. But, there is One who does love us, unconditionally.

"What Love Really Means" by JJ Heller addresses these issues. It's a new song that points us in the direction of real love. I'm already seeing stories of lives impacted by this phenomenal song. If you haven't heard it yet, click here to see the video; http://www.jjheller.com/home.asp

When I'm feeling unloved, these verses always bring encouragement; Jeremiah 29:11, Romans 8:38-39, 1 Peter 5:7, 1 John 3:1, Romans 8:31-32, 2 Thessalonians 2:16, Isaiah 41:10, Psalm 55:22, Isaiah 40:11, 1 John 4:16, Psalm 34:18, 2 Corinthians 9:8, Revelation 21:3-4 If I can be praying for you, please don't hesitate to let me know; joeb@newlifemedia.org

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Waiting...

2010-09-15T16:32:00.000-07:00

I can be so impatient sometimes. And, yet other times I seemingly have an endless supply of patience. So, what is it that makes it so easy to wait sometimes and impossible others? Well, for me, it's identifying the triggers that cause me to be impatient. This took me years to fully understand and to say I've mastered it would be a gross misstatement. I have so far to go. And, every time I think I'm starting to get it, I find myself in a situation that keeps me humble.

So, what is it that causes me to be so impatient. I believe I've narrowed it down to things I can't control. For instance, if there's something I want to buy, I can be extremely patient in getting it. Because, I know at any time I could decide to just go get it. However, if there's something I can't control it drains my tank rather quickly. I believe it stems from childhood experiences. And, understanding this has helped me a lot.

Something that God has been working with me intensely on over the past year or so is Proverbs 3:5. God's teaching me how to not lean on my own understanding, but to trust Him. It's a lot easier said than done. But, when I lean on Him, not only does He supply the strength I need to not lean on my own understanding, but I also find incredible peace. Because, when I'm leaning on my own understanding, things can get quite scary very quickly. It really does boil down to just trusting Him. The more I trust Him the less impatient I become.

You're hearing a song these days on your favorite Family Friendly radio station that serves as a reminder to continue leaning on Him, even when I grow weary of waiting. Have you heard John Waller's "While I'm Waiting?" Click here to hear it now; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u3b2jw1rjBc

Do you find yourself in a situation or circumstance that makes it difficult to wait on Him? If I can be praying for you, please don't hesitate to let me know - joeb@newlifemedia.org

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)
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Unconditional...

2010-07-21T14:43:00.000-07:00

I woke up the other morning to my 4 year old son exclaiming, "It's my birthday today Daddy! I can do whatever I want!" Well, within reason, I supposed. The first thing he wanted was some sugar cereal. The look on his face was priceless. The larger than life smile, as he chowed down the cereal, was worth the repercussions that all that sugar was going to cause.

After apologizing to my wife for loading him up with all that sugar, I headed off to work. I couldn't get his smile out of my head. It brought back so many wonderful memories I've had the privilege to share with our kids. That smile, in that moment, was the product of his 4 years of life.

Now, I wish I could take all the credit for that. And, it's quite possible that I got some things right. But, I've probably made far more mistakes than not. That's where God comes in. As we strive to honor Him, to the best of our ability, He somehow makes up the difference. At times, I'll climb into bed after checking on our kids and I'll ask my wife, "Do you think they know I love them?" Without even thinking about it, she'll respond, "The thought has never crossed their minds."

Like so many times before, she reminds me to do the best I can to honor God as a father and husband and let Him make up the difference. I worry about them feeling unloved, because that's how I grew up. I was convinced I wasn't loved or lovable. I worried about it. What a peace it brings to be reminded that they have never even thought about it. It's just a given for them.

In the same way, it's a given for us with our Heavenly Father. His love is unconditional. It's not dependent on what we do or don't do. Or, how we feel about ourselves. And, He longs for relationship with us. Not just in our good times, when we feel like we have it all together. In all times. If you're anything like me, it's much easier to come before God when I'm doing well. When I know I've done a good job honoring Him. But, I can neglect that relationship when I'm feeling ashamed, under qualified, or unworthy. I can pull away. But, that's when I should be pushing into Him even more. I think sometimes, those honest cries for help can mean more than a perfect praise song. It's a constant battle and I'm always working on not letting my circumstance hold me back.

That's one of many reasons I really love Amy Grant's new

song, "Better Than A Hallelujah" It's a great reminder that God will not ignore our request for help. He's not going to laugh at us or be disappointed. He loves us so much.

Is He patiently waiting to hear from you today? Are you holding back? If I can be praying for you, please don't hesitate to let me know - joeb@newlifemedia.org

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)

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Hard days...

2010-05-07T11:18:00.001-07:00

If Mother's Day is also a very hard day for you, please don't beat yourself up about it. And, if I can be praying for you, please don't hesitate to let me know - joeb@newlifemedia.org

Remember, God loves you so very much!

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)

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Your Hands...

2010-02-19T17:32:00.000-08:00

Looking back over my life, there have been so many times when I was sure God couldn't hear my cries for help. Have you ever been there? When it seems like time and time your prayer goes unanswered, seemingly unheard. Trouble that you may or may not have brought on yourself and how hard you've wished it wasn't there. Pain so deep that it overshadows the good things in your life. And, the loneliness. It can cut so deep.

For me, that's the most difficult part of walking through challenging and tough times. The loneliness. Feeling all alone causes us to isolate ourselves. Then, the challenge or problem can seem so big. Much larger than it actually is. And, the more that I isolate myself, the harder it becomes to reach out for help. The more my prayers seem to go unheard, the more likely I am to stop praying.

That's the exact opposite of what I should be doing. God has taught me so much through the pain in my life. And, although I still have so far to go and so much to lean, I'm in a better place than I was even a year ago. I can take no credit for that. It's all Him. One of the areas He has challenged me to grow is trust. Leaning not on my own understanding, but fully trusting Him. I would love to say, with all the time He's invested in me, that I've finally mastered it. But, a statement like that couldn't be further from the truth. Actually, the more I learn the more aware I am of how much I need to learn. I'm so grateful for His patience with me.

A new song I'm really excited about is called, "Your Hands" by new artist, JJ Heller. I love the way she starts out the song, "I have unanswered prayers. I have trouble I wish wasn't there. I have asked a thousand ways that you would take my pain away." She goes on to say, "When my world is shaking, Heaven stands. When my heart is breaking, I never leave Your hands"

He's got us, securely placed in the palm of His hand. No matter the circumstance that you find yourself in today, God is there with you. He's holding you each and every step of the way. He has promised to never let you go. He sees every tear. He feels ever hurt. He knows every fear and although you may feel all alone, you've never truly been. And, He understands that, too.

If you find yourself in a tough stretch, can I stand with you in prayer? First, there is power in prayer, but also knowing someone is praying for you can help take the edge off the loneliness. You can be as specific or vague as you want, but if I can be praying for you, please don't hesitate to let me know - joeb@newlifemedia.org

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)

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I want to hear "Chorus Of the Colts!"

2010-02-05T10:39:00.000-08:00

So, I got this email from a listener this week. It was all in good fun. She thought it was out of line for our station, being a midwest station, to play a song like "Chorus Of the Saints" by Revive. After all, living in the midwest, we should be pulling for the Colts on Sunday, right?

Well, whatever team you're pulling for, you probably want me aligning with the other team. For whatever reason, this year it seems like I can't pick a winning team no matter how hard I try. Even in games I don't care that much about, if I start to pull toward one team, that team will start to self destruct, right before my eyes. In games where "my" team is picked and should win by plenty, they still find away to end up on the losing end. So, even now, I'm still not sure which team I'll pull for. Sure, I know which team I would like to win. So, maybe I'll experiment and pull for the other team on Sunday. Yea, I kind of like that idea. After all, we all know the outcome of that game is completely based on which team I pull for. Not! No matter the outcome or however you chose to spend Superbowl Sunday, I hope that it is a good day packed with terrific moments that create wonderful memories.

Getting back to the chorus of the Saints. No, not the football team. The song from Revive. Have you had a chance to really listen to the lyric in this song? The words are quite amazing, actually! I think there are so many times when we feel like we're down for

the count. Our circumstances can seem so impossible. The hill is just too hard to climb. We become confused by the doubt and suffering and we lose our way.

But, there is hope! All we have to do is "Open our eyes and see the beauty of our God who has never left our side!" I love that line in the song. We've all heard those around us say things like, "When I see it, I'll believe it." But, maybe it should be the other way around. "When I believe it, I'll see it." That's why He calls it faith, right? Believing without seeing.

I get into such trouble when I get that backwards. When I start leaning on my own understanding. God wants me to do the opposite. Lean not on my own understanding, but to trust Him. And, when I misplace the trust I should only place in Him, it can get so scary so fast. But, as He helps me open my eyes to, again, see that He has never left my side, I can begin to sing once again, "Hallelujah! Our God Is Faithful!" If you haven't heard Revive's "Chorus Of the Saints" you can click this link to hear it now; http://www.reviveband.com/media/music

You can also hear it on Family Friendly radio. (WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)

If I can be praying for you as you seek to deepen your relationship with the one who created you, please don't hesitate to let me know - joeb@newlifemedia.org

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)

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I want to fall in love...

2010-01-29T12:38:00.000-08:00

I can't tell you how many times I've set out to better my relationship with God. I've worked hard to pick the right devotional, made sure I set some kind of reminder and sat down each day to make it happen. The plan worked for about a week or until the scheduled time got interrupted a couple times by, life. Yea, I'm ashamed to say that the distractions of life get in the way of me spending quality time with Him.

So, what next? How do I get from wanting to make myself grow my relationship with Him to actually making it happen? That's a question I've asked over and over. And, the closer I do grow to Him the more I believe it's not just about the physical act of making it happen. Don't get me wrong, discipline is extremely important, but it's got to come from somewhere deeper.

A few years ago I had a Pastor extend me some great advise. He suggested that I simply ask God, every day, to help me fall deeper in love with Him. I can't begin to tell you the impact that simple prayer has had on me. God did draw me in closer to Him, but it's a two way street. The more I fall in love with Him the more I want to spend time with Him. But, it's in the time I spend with Him that I fall deeper in love with Him.

The first time I heard Jason Gray's new song, "More Like Falling In Love" I immediately connected with it. Jason has this amazing way of communicating a great truth through this catchy and well written song. If you haven't heard it yet, please click here to hear it now; http://jasongraymusic.com/home You can also hear this song on Family Friendly Radio. (WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)

I can honestly say that I am more in love with Jesus than ever, but it's a process. I still have so far to go. I'm humbled by His patience. He is so good to us. And, through him, I find myself enjoying the journey. If I can be praying for you as you seek to deepen your relationship with the one who created you, please don't hesitate to let me know - joeb@newlifemedia.org

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)

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I want to help...

2010-01-15T09:03:00.000-08:00

As I was watching the news last night, I found it difficult to sit through the images coming in from Haiti. I can't imagine what it must be like. I try to put myself in their shoes, but can't stay there very long. So many lives lost. So many loved ones missing. So much devastation.

So, what can we do to help? It can seem so overwhelming. What in the world can one person do to make a difference in the aftermath of something like that? It's like Josh Wilson's lyric, "It's like trying to fit the ocean in a cup."

But, we can make a difference. Here are a few organizations doing some amazing things to help, if you're looking for ideas.

1. Pray.

2. www.convoyofhope.org

3. www.compassion.com

4. www.redcross.org

5. You can also quickly and easily donate $10 by texting the word "HAITI" to '90999' from your cell phone. The $10 will be added to your next cell phone bill.

If you are aware of other avenues through which we can help, please don't hesitate to let me know. joeb@newlifemedia.org Thanks!

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)

Music Advisory Panel: WBGL WCIC WIBI

Christmas Music 2009

2009-12-07T10:59:00.000-08:00

Every year the day after Thanksgiving, it's a tradition in our home to decorate for Christmas. It's so good for me to watch how excited my kids get with each passing year and the tradition gets rooted deeper. This year had to be the most anticipated and exciting one yet. The kids started counting down the days months earlier. They loved it! One of the elements that always makes the day so special, for my family, is the wonderful Christmas music. But, there's always so much to choose from. Of course, as in years past, you know you have access to the best mix of Christmas music on your Family Friendly radio station. You also can speak into that process by joing our Muisc Advisory Panel. Your opinion is very important to me!
(www.newlifemedianetwo rk.org - Just click on your favorite station and then click on Music Advisory Panel. if you have questions or need assistance, please feel free to email me;joeb@newlifemedia.org)

If you're looking to buy some new Christmas CDs this year, but find yourself a little apprehensive with all the choices, here are a few I truly believe you will love. Again, please feel free to email me if you have any questions or need assistance -joeb@newlifemedia.org

1. DOWNHERE - "How Many Kings" - My wife and I own every CD Downhere has ever released and from the moment I received this one, (Sometime this last summer) it's been playing in my house. From start to finish there isn't a bad moment on the entire CD. Their version of Good King Wenceslas has to be, by far, the best version I've ever heard of that song. "Five Golden Rings" is only elven seconds long. You'll find two versions of "How Many Kings" The original is the opening track and the project closes out with the "re-imagined" version. This would be a great soundtrack for your Christmas memories this year.
Songs from this CD you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "How Many Kings", "God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen","Christmas In Our Hearts" & "Angels From the Realms Of Glory"

2. CHRIS TOMLIN - "Glory In The Highest" - Well, this CD has a very special place in my heart. I had the very rare privilege to participate in the recording process of this one. This past June, Chris invited some friends to come out and sing in the choir as he recorded the tracks to this project. The CD was recorded at Ocean Way, a legendary studio, in Nashville, TN. It was an amazing experience! We all gathered and just worshipped God together. As I listen through the CD now, I'm blown away by how well it reflects those special moments I'll never forget. And now, you can also be apart of it as this CD will transform your car, living room, etc., to a wonderful worship experience. Although the whole CD is great, one song that really stands out for me is "Winter Snow" featuring Audrey Assad. You may actually recognize her voice, as she was the female vocalist on "More Beautiful You" by Jonny Diaz. If you're looking for a great time of Christmas worship, this CD was made for you.
Songs from this CD you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "Joy To The World (Unspeakable Joy)","Emmanuel" & "Winter Snow (Featuring Audrey Assad)"

3. 33MILES - "Believe" - From the first moment I heard my first 33Miles song, I was a fan. And, after their beautiful Christmas Medley was a huge hit last year, I was excited to learn of their new full length Christmas CD. After one listen through, I just knew you were also going to love it! Complementing the beautiful arrangements of Christmas classics are some great originals delivered in true 33Miles fashion. And each song has that distinctive and unmistakable 33Miles fingerprint all over it! "I Could Not Come To You", "I Believe In Christmas" and "Finally Christmas" are fantastic original contributions that are sure to become tomorrow's favorites. "Believe" by 33Miles would be a great addition to any Christmas collection.
Songs you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "O Come All Ye Faithful / Sing To the King","Hark The Herald Angels Sing","Joy To The World" & "I Believe In Christmas"

4. BIG DADDY WEAVE - "Christ Is Come" - Another great Christmas CD! This one also rises to the top of the list. Great moments from start to finish. One of my personal favorites is "I'll Be Brave This Christmas" It's a track that made me stop what I was doing and really hear what was being said. After the track finished, I found myself so grateful for so much that God had done for me. And, for those who have so sacrificially put their lives on the line for each of us so we could even celebrate Christmas. I also absolutely love their version of "Joy To The World"
Songs you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "Joy To the World","O Come O Come Emmanuel" & "I'll Be Brave This Christmas"

6. BETHLEHEM SKYLINE - Featuring Various Artists (Downhere, Jason Grey, JaimeJamgochian and others) - Ok, it's no secret that I love Downhere! In fact, their latest studio CD "Ending Is Beginning" is one of my top 5 CDs of 2008! So when I saw they had a couple of Christmas songs on a compilation CD, I just had to have it! Yes, the Downhere songs are great, but the rest of the CD lives up to those songs, too. In fact, this CD is so good, that it gave us an opportunity to introduce you to Circleslide and Daniel Kirkley through a couple of their Christmas songs found on this CD. And, even though the CD is incredible from start to finish, the Downhere song "How Many Kings" litterally knocked me over. Like the others on this list, this CD is great!
Songs you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "How Many Kings " - Downhere, "Joy To the World" - Circleslide, "Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas" - Daniel Kirkley, "O Come O Come Emmanuel" - Jaime Jamgocian, "Glory To God In The Highest" - Downhere & "O Come All Ye Faithful" - Downhere and friends.

7. MercyMe - " The Christmas Sessions" - MercyMe through the years has become one of your all time favorite groups. They've released great CD after great CD, with chart topping hits like "I Can Only Imagine", "God With Us", "Homesick", "Word of God Speak" and many, many others. And, this CD is no exception. Not abandoning their sound, they incorporate it wonderfully into this amazing Christmas project. From the very first track through the last song you will not be disappointed. You've already began to fall in love with "Gloria", "What Child Is This", "O Holy Night" and your favorite, an original contribution; "Joseph's Lullaby" "The Christmas Sessions" would have to be one my top 5 Christmas CDs ever.
Songs you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "Joseph's Lullaby", "Gloria", "What Child Is This", "O Holy Night", "God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen" & "Silent Night"

2009-11-23T13:01:00.000-08:00

Video Blog 1.6 :: Thankful...

If you find this to be a very difficult time of year and are in need of prayer, please don't hesitate to let me know. joeb@newlifemedia.org

I hope you and your family have a very HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)
We work very hard to honor God through serving you. Your input is very important to us and decisions are made regularly, based on the opinions you have. To assure that your opinion is being heard, please join our Music Advisory Panel today. Click on your station for a direct link. Thanks!
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Vision Moment with Patty Dudley

2009-10-29T20:12:00.000-07:00

Video Blog 1.5 :: Vision Moment with Patty Dudley

For more information about our fall fundraiser, Vision - please click here, http://www.wibi.org Thanks!

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)
We work very hard to honor God through serving you. Your input is very important to us and decisions are made regularly, based on the opinions you have. To assure that your opinion is being heard, please join our Music Advisory Panel today. Click on your station for a direct link. Thanks!
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How He Loves Us...

2009-10-16T12:02:00.000-07:00

Video Blog 1.4 :: How He Loves Us

For more information about David Crowder Band or their new song, "How He Loves" please click here; http://www.davidcrowderband.com/enter.php "How He Loves" is found on David Crowder Band's latest CD, "Church Music"

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)
We work very hard to honor God through serving you. Your input is very important to us and decisions are made regularly, based on the opinions you have. To assure that your opinion is being heard, please join our Music Advisory Panel today. Click on your station for a direct link. Thanks!
Music Advisory Panel: WBGL WCIC WIBI

What Faith Can Do...

2009-10-09T07:13:00.000-07:00

Video Blog 1.3 :: What Faith Can Do

For more information about Kutless or their new song, "What Faith Can Do" please click here; www.kutless.com

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director.www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL,WIBI & WCIC)

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Chilin' Out...

2009-10-01T14:09:00.000-07:00

This past Monday, my son and I had dinner at Chili's along with many listeners. Chili's donated 100% of the day's profits back to St. Jude's Children's Hospital. My son joined me for this video blog...

Video Blog 1.2 :: Chilin' Out

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director. www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL, WIBI & WCIC)

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New Video Blog...

2009-09-25T13:55:00.000-07:00

Music is so powerful. I remember as a child, long before I gave my life to Christ, how huge of an impact music had on me. The lyric in songs had an unbelievable ability to dictate, not only my mood, but my outlook on life. It wasn't until I got my first Amy Grant record, yea, that's right, a record, that I began to allow that power to have a good impact on my life. I can honestly tell you I've never been the same.

That's just one of so many reasons I'm so passionate about what I do for New Life Media Network. Each song you hear on the air has been listen to many, many times, thought about and prayed over, long before you hear it a first time on the radio. We take this very seriously.

Have you ever heard a song, maybe even several times and thought "that was a nice song?" Then one day you hear it and, out of nowhere, it completely knocks you over? That's the power of music. There are songs that I like, but have never fallen in love with until one day they line up with something going on in my life. Then, I hear that song like I've never heard it before. Having a song that so well relates to what you're going through can be quite amazing. It's quite powerful. And, I don't want you to miss out any impact these songs can have on you or someone you know.

In fact, we want you to be on the inside. That's why I started this blog. That's why I feel it's time to take the blog to the next level. It blows my mind at how rapidly technology is always changing. In an effort to keep up with those changes and better serve you, I'm attempting a new Video Blog. This Video Blog will serve to keep you updated and knowledgeable about the music we play across New Life Media Network. My desire is for you to fully understand the impact these songs can have on individual lives and why I feel so passionately about getting them on the air.

Another way you can be on the inside is to join our Music Advisory Panel. Your input is very important to us and decisions are made regularly, based on the opinions you have. To join our Music Advisory Panel today. Click on your station for a direct link. Thanks!

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Video Blog 1.1 :: Forgiven

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director. www.newlifemedia.org(WBGL, WIBI & WCIC)

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Heaven Is the Face...

2009-09-18T10:37:00.001-07:00

Well, I'll never forget the way I felt when I learned of the tragic accident that claimed the life of Steven Curtis Chapman's youngest daughter. I found myself immediately putting myself into Steven's shoes. Being a father of three, my heart ached for him and his family. I can't imagine what it must have been like to experience the loss of a child. I hope and pray I never get the opportunity to know first hand what that feels like.

Over the past year or so, I've been continually blown away by how the Chapmans have handled themselves through the grieving process. I've seen and heard first hand so many lives impacted and changed by the very way Steven and his family have responded. The encouragement they've offered just through being real. Even in the midst of not understand how a loving God could allow something like this to happen. Even through this time of intense grieving, they've never turned their backs on God. A lot of questions, sure. But, through it all, not turning their backs on Him.

Steven is about to release a brand new CD, "Beauty Will Rise" on November 3rd. This CD has such honesty and hope woven through the songs from start to finish. The opening track happens to be the first single to radio, "Heaven Is the Face." If you've lost a loved one, then the words in this song will be a real encouragement to you. I loved it from the first time I heard it. I'm convinced it will bless you as well. It is currently playing on your favorite Family Friendly radio station.

If you would like more information, please click here; http://www.stevencurtischapman.com/

If you're experiencing a difficult time in your journey, I would count it a privilege to stand in prayer with you. Please don't hesitate to drop me a line at joeb@newlifemedia.org.

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director. www.newlifemedia.org (WBGL, WIBI & WCIC)

Music Advisory Panel: WBGL WCIC WIBI

Baseball and life lessons...

2009-08-13T14:50:00.001-07:00

So, I'm watching the Cubs game with my six year old son a few nights ago and they were losing bad. At one point I turned to my son and said "Why don't we turn this off and go do something else, together." Before turning off the TV, I noticed a sad look on his face. I sat the remote down, and asked him. "Do you really want to watch this? Isn't it frustrating how badly they are playing?" His response was so simple but yet so profound. "Dad, I don't care if they win or lose, I just love watching them play."

That statement resonated inside my head as we continued to watch the game. I thought about how much joy I might be stealing from his experience with my own frustration. I thought about how much better my own life would be, if I could be more like my son. I can get so caught up in what has to get done, when it's got to get done and how well I execute the task, that I sometimes miss the bigger picture. I often miss the opportunities to just enjoy life, God and those on this journey with me. I spend far too much time so frustrated with how short I fall. And, that frustration so often steals from my ability to just enjoy the journey.

I watched my son, fully engaged in the game, enjoying every moment. He would high five me when a player made a good play or got a hit. He didn't care that they were losing by eleven runs. The score just didn't matter, as far as he was concerned. He was just enjoying the game. After I tucked him into bed, I prayed as I left his room. I asked God to help me be more like that. Sure, we have to do our best and work hard to accomplish the things God has for each of us to do. But, I have to remember to also enjoy life along the way. To find balance and to occasionally relax, take a deep breath and just enjoy the game.

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director. www.newlifemedia.org

But, do I really know Him?

2009-07-03T09:53:00.000-07:00

If you and I were to sit down and talk about the Bible, it probably wouldn't surprise you that I'm pretty familiar with a majority of the popular stories. As I hear sermons, I often recognize the basis of the teaching. I've read or listened to the first five books of the Bible at least a dozen times throughout my life. I've even had chapters of certain books memorized at different times. That accomplishment, I owe to the encouragement and motivation of my wife, Tara. I can pull dozens of key verses out of thin air in a moment's thought. I know where each book is in the Bible, I know the order and which ones are old or new testament. I have a pretty good handle on who wrote which book and the circumstances in which each were written. And although I don't know it all by a long shot and there is plenty I don't have a clue about, my knowledge of the Bible has come a long way.

I used to always think that knowledge was the key. The more I knew the better. And, to a point that can be correct. But, God has been at work in me this past year. I've been challenged to have more than just head knowledge. Don't get me wrong, it is extremely important, but I found myself way out of balance. It seemed the more I filled my head with what I knew about Him the less I was getting to know Him.

Over the past year, I've found myself missing that zeal I once had to run after Him. The way I used to want to be with Him at any cost. I could spend time with Him doing nothing but praising and listening. There was a time in which I literally couldn't make it through a day without Him. But, something had happened along the way. Instead of not being able to make it through the day, I began to only know I couldn't get through the day. And, although I knew it, the knowledge didn't keep me from trying. As my life seemingly got more comfortable, I slowly forgot the practice of surrendering it to Him on a daily basis. I continued to learn about Him, but there was a major disconnect. I no longer put a priority on the relationship and I spent less and less time listening.

I'm ashamed to say that this went on for several years. I would have moments of closeness, but for the most part He was there when I needed Him or to celebrate with, but not in the details of my everyday life. But, He waited patiently. He is so faithful.

One morning I woke up and realized how bad I missed Him. I'm so grateful that He cut through the busyness of my life and spoke loud enough for me to hear. I'm not sure what was so different about that day, but, for me, it was life changing. He had been there the whole time but I had allowed too much noise in my life to hear. As I, once again, began to listen, He gently started to draw me back to Him. Some days are still a struggle for balance. But, again, He is faithful and I'm getting to know Him, and there's no better place to be.

Have you ever heard a song and thought that song is for me? That's exactly what happened when I heard the song "What Do I Know Of Holy?" by Addison Road. I couldn't help but think that song was written for me. Have you heard it? It's on the radio and you can hear it on Family Friendly Radio. I hope when you do hear it, God also uses it to impact your life and bring you encouragement as He has for me. If you want to find out more about Addison Road or this phenomenal song, please click here; http://addisonroad.com/blog/ or here; http://www.myspace.com/addisonroad

If I can be praying for you as you walk through the journey of life, please don't hesitate to let me know. joeb@newlifemedia.org

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director. www.newlifemedia.org

You're Beautiful...

2009-06-02T09:34:00.001-07:00

When is the last time you were told you're beautiful? I wonder how many of us truly feel beautiful. I mean really beautiful. I think if we were totally honest, we all struggle with wanting to look and feel beautiful, but believe we fall so short of being truly beautiful. But, what if, no matter what we believe, the truth was that we were amazingly beautiful? That no matter what we think or feel about ourselves and no matter what we've been told, we possess a beauty beyond words? Breathtaking, really. And, it's not something we can buy, produce or maintain. We are beautiful, because He says so. Period. And, His opinion is the only one that really matters. Besides, He's the only one that really knows what beauty is really all about. He knew what He was doing when He created us. No matter what you do or think, there could not be a more beautiful you. Unfortunately, somewhere along the line, we're taught that other people's opinion is the one that matters. And, throughout our lives we learn to measure ourselves to the standards of this world to determine our beauty. We end up spending so much time and energy chasing after things we think will make us beautiful. We try to keep age from stealing what beauty we believe we have. It becomes an endless and exhausting effort just to hold on to it, even if for a moment. For so many of us, because of what's been done to us, how we were raised, or how others feel about us, we've bought the lie that we'll never measure up to true beauty.

But, what is true beauty? For most of us the definition of "True Beauty" consists of something very fleeting and temporary. We forget or are just never taught about the beauty that lies beneath the surface of our physical bodies. God says it's what's in the heart that matters and that what's on the outside is a lot less significant than what's in the heart. I know it's easier said than done. We want to feel beautiful and this world is very clear about your physical appearance holding the majority of your "Beauty" stock. As a result, we believe our interpretation of what the mirror says - that we're just not beautiful. This is a dangerous line of thinking, because it hurts our ability to accomplish the purpose God created us for. It destroys our confidence in Him and in ourselves to follow His leading in our lives. We hold back in so many areas of our lives and we begin to believe that we have nothing to offer. Over time, this thinking can begin to erode any close relationships we have, both with people and God.

Whatever happened to beauty being in the eye of the beholder? And, when it comes to beholders there's none with a more accurate opinion than God. I love what the Psalmist said in Psalms 139:14: “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” You are fearfully and wonderfully made and make no mistake about it, there could not be a more beautiful you. Jonny Diaz sums this up so well in his new song, "More Beautiful You". If you would like to find out more, please click here; http://www.jonnydiaz.com/

Because of Him and what He has done, you are truly beautiful!

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director. www.newlifemedia.org

Forgiven and Loved

2009-04-24T08:50:00.000-07:00

You are forgiven and loved! If you're like me, those five words can bring such relief. I spend so much of my time trying to be perfect. Trying to convince people that I'm worthy of being loved. Trying to convince God that I'm worthy of His love. And, to hear those words remind me that it is less about me and more about Him. That there is nothing I can do to earn that. It rests alone in what Christ willingly did for each and every one of us. My only requirement is to repent and then accept it. I have the whole repentance thing down so many times, but where I stumble is with the whole idea that it can't be that easy. There has to be something I'm missing. Some way for me to make it right. But, I can't. There is nothing I can do to make it right. Only He can do that. And, He has chosen to do it at no cost to you and me. It's a free gift. There are times when my mind really gets itself wrapped around that and I feel like the weight of the world has lifted off my shoulders. My hope is that the older I get the more I can live there.

I'll never forget the very first time I felt loved by God. I was 20 years old. I had just started dating my wife, Tara, and was driving to her house. On the way, I was praying, thanking God for Tara. God started to remind me of how valuable Tara was to Him. He reminded me of how she would walk to school instead of riding the bus, so she could spend more time with Him. He reminded me of how she had whole chapters of the Bible memorized. He reminded me of how she was so innocent and loved by everyone at church. I was beginning to get defensive. Because, I was convinced that God was going to tell me "If you ever hurt her, you'll have to deal with me..." So as I was listening I began to pray, "God please help me to not hurt your precious child..." But, before I could finish, God spoke this to my heart; "You know how I feel about her, right?" I prayed "Yes, I do." Then, God spoke something to my heart I will never forget as long as I live. He simply said "That's how I feel about you, Joe." Needless to say, I had to pull the car over. I had never cried that hard in my entire life. For the first time in my life, I felt loved. And, it was God! That moment changed my life forever.

There's so much more our lives can become, more we can accomplish for Him, if we only knew we were truly loved. He has such amazing plans for our lives! He is not ashamed of us. He loves us! He loves you. Please be encouraged today and the next time you hear "Forgiven and Loved" from Jimmy Needham, I hope it reminds you of how valuable you truly are.

If I can be praying for you, please don't hesitate to let me know. joeb@newlifemedia.org

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director. www.newlifemedia.org

He's Not Done...

2009-03-27T12:32:00.000-07:00

One of my favorite Bible verses when I was in my late teens, early twenties was Philippians 1:6. "For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus." That verse brought me such peace through a time in my life filled with such turmoil. I wonder if Paul knew when he wrote those words that it would have had such an impact thousands of years later. I kept hearing teachings about how God had a plan for our lives. But, I couldn't, for the life of me, figure out how in the world God could use me. And, when I would become really discouraged, wondering what value my life had, if any, I would hear that verse. It would be used in sermons, notes from friends, songs, it was popping up everywhere. Could this be true? First, did God really begin a good work in me? Second, am I worth it to Him to complete that work? I just knew that I wasn't.

And I am so glad that God didn't take my word for it. It took me a long time to understand that my value has nothing to do with me and everything to do with Him. Even now, almost 20 years later, it can still be a struggle some days. But, it's true. Our value has nothing to do with us. We're extremely valuable because of Him and what He did for each and every one of us. God does love us, more than any amount of descriptive words I could ever come up with. And He does have an amazing plan for our lives. Sometimes, I think I'm so hindered by looking back where I've fallen instead of keeping my eyes on where He is leading. And, I fall so much. But there is still hope for me, yet! He's up to something, make no mistake about it!

Maybe you can relate. Please don't be hard on yourself. My prayer for you is that you will let Him help you stay focused on Him. He does have some pretty amazing things planned for you and he's not finished with you yet! Brandon Heath has a new song, you've started hearing on Family Friendly Radio, called "Wait and See." It's a great reminder that God is not done with us, yet. I love these lines from the song;

There is hope for me yet because God won’t forget, all the plans he’s made for me
I have to wait and see, he’s not finished with me yet. He’s not finished with me yet

I hope this encourages you. God is not ashamed of you and you don't have to hide from Him. If you need to repent, please do so. Then, trust Him with all your heart! He truly does have something amazing planned for you! If I can be praying for you, please don't hesitate to drop me a line at joeb@newlifemedia.org

Joe Buchanan serves New Life Media as Network Music Director. www.newlifemedia.org

Is that the sun I see?

2009-03-13T12:19:00.001-07:00

Before Tara and I were even married, we made a commitment to not let the sun go down on our anger. We decided that no matter how tired we were the following day, we were going to stay up and work out whatever issues we had and not sleep until we reached some kind of resolution. That may sound like an unreachable goal, but I can honestly tell you that after almost 12 years of marriage, we have managed to hold true to that commitment. I could count on one hand the number of times we've "let it slide" and slept on an unresolved issue. If I were completely truthful with you though, I would tell you that I can't take any credit for this. God blessed our desire to honor Him with our relationship. I strongly believe that single decision, to work out issues as they come, was a huge ingredient to our success. Marriages don't fall apart overnight. It's a slow process that happens over time. It can seem quite sudden, but the signs are there long before the decay starts to show. Looking back, I'm so grateful that our Sunday School class hosted a Gary Smalley video series, when Tara and I were first married. God used him in such an amazing way to set our marriage on the right path. Another huge ingredient was the "uahh!" factor. In his video teaching, Gary passed around an old violin that was all beat up. People passed it around the room, not giving a second thought about it. Then, Gary said "Oh, by the way, that's a Stradivarius. (One recently sold for over $3 million) Everyone in the room collectively let out an "uahh!" Gary then said "Exactly! That's how you need to treat your spouse every time you see them. But, most of us after being married a while start treating our spouse like an old beat up violin, instead of the value they truly hold." That resonated with me. To this day, Tara and I try to greet each other, every time, with the "Uahh!" factor. It doesn't matter if we've just seen each other, or haven't seen each other in days. And, again, I would love to take credit here, but I just can't. God honored our efforts and blessed us. Plus, I married an incredibly wonderful woman of God who's willing to look past my very many short comings!

Throughout my life, there have been many times I've wanted to help someone, but didn't have the first clue as to how. After I met Jesus, I began to realize one huge thing I can do is pray. I take that very seriously. If you've ever caught me on-air, you have probably heard this. I get many prayer requests every day and, after praying, I'm always on the lookout for resources that will help with the circumstances addressed in these requests. Of all the requests I get, the majority of them have to do with issues within a marriage. When you're in a great marriage, you can sometimes forget that it isn't that way for everyone. And, then my heart breaks, because I so desperately want others to experience how great it truly can be. So, I pray harder. Although the Bible is extraordinarily helpful, every now and then an additional great resource will come along that can be applied to lives and help. The movie Fireproof comes to mind. If you haven't seen it, please plan to watch it sometime. Through the success of this movie, there is a fantastic website full of incredible resources. Please click here if you want more info; www.fireproofmymarriage.com Another phenomenal resource is music. Over the past few years, you've undoubtedly heard several songs that deal with these issues. Sanctus Real "Don't Give Up", Warren Barfield "Love Is Not A Fight" and several others. Now, we can add another to the list. It's the brand new song from The Afters, called "Ocean Wide" If you want to know more about this song, you can hear the lead singer's (Josh Havens) own words by clicking here; http://media.buzzplant.com/content/ino/theafters/NewLifeMedia.wm
This song is now playing on Family Friendly Radio.

As always, if I can be praying for you, about anything, please don't hesitate to let me know; joeb@newlifemedia.org

What do we really have to lose?

2009-02-27T15:06:00.000-08:00

It's funny how lessons tend to repeat themselves throughout our lives. I'm often reminded of when I was dating my wife, Tara. We dated for five years and even though we knew right away we wanted to get married, we also knew it was going to take several years. First, we were quite young. Second, Tara's parents wanted her to finish school, first. Plus, before I was ready to be the husband I wanted to be, I needed time for God's healing to take place in my life. Very early on, Tara and I knew roughly the time we would be married and also knew it was going to be five years or so. During that five year stretch, there were so many times that I would loose focus of our wedding day and get caught up in the moment I was in. The wedding day seemed so far away and I would convince myself I had plenty of time to get things in order. So, I would spend my money and time on very temporal things instead of saving and investing in our future. I'm so grateful that God would gently remind me of what I was working toward and then help me get back on track. Our wedding day did finally come and it was everything we dreamed it would be. I'm so glad we worked hard and trusted God to help us accomplish the things He asked as He prepared that day for us. And, looking back, those five years really did pass by very quickly. It's so hard to believe that it's now been twelve years since our wedding day.

I'm often reminded of that experience and how it parallels with my Christian walk. There is a day coming and that day is going to be more than we could ever imagine or dream. It may seem like a long way off, but, in all reality, it will be here before we know it! I just need to make sure that my focus is on that day instead of getting caught up in making my life comfortable now. That way I can accomplish the things God has asked of me between now and then. A big part of what God has asked me to do resides in holding on loosely to the things I have. A willing heart to let go of anything He asks me to. To allow His blessing to flow through my hands, instead of holding on tightly to them. I am a work in progress and I'm so glad that He who started a good work in me is faithful to complete it!

It's in loosening the grip that real blessing begins to flow. I have found throughout my life, the tighter I hold the more restricted the blessing. However, when I loosen my grip the blessing begins to flow again. For me, it's realizing that I don't own anything. It all belongs to Him. And, if I can put my trust completely and fully in Him, then it's going to be alright. What do I really have to lose?

That's what the new Rush Of Fools song is all about. Losing it all for Him. Holding on loosely to the things of this world and holding tightly to Him. This new song is found on their latest CD, "Wonder Of The World" and it can be heard on Family Friendly Radio. If you would like more information about Rush Of Fools or this song, please click here; http://www.rushoffools.com/index.php

If there is anything I can be praying about for you, please don't hesitate to let me know. joeb@newlifemedia.org.

You're Invited...

2009-02-13T13:24:00.000-08:00

There have been many times in my life when I've held back from God out of shame. Afraid to be too vulnerable, because if God knew what I was really like, there's no way He could still love me. There would be no way I could still be His child. Right? Growing up under very difficult circumstances, my self worth was stripped from me as a child. I was convinced that God had made a mistake with me. Then, I met Jesus. And, through some very difficult years I began to gain a little better understanding of His love, not only for me, but for every one of us. The first thing I learned was that God already knew everything there was to know about me. And, He still loved me. In fact, His decision to love me came long before I even knew who He was or that He even existed. It hasn't always been easy, but God has been faithful and, sure, there are still times when I fell unloved, but God is always there to remind me that He does.
I think if we're honest, even the most confident among us would admit there are times when we feel ashamed, unwelcome and unloved. And, in those times we turn from God, hoping He won't see. But, He does see. He sees everything. And, as scary as that is, there is some comfort in knowing that whatever we've done, wherever we've been, God still loves us and wants to be with us. It's really amazing, when you stop and think about it. That, God loved you and me so much that He wanted to be with us, even though it cost Him, His son. Jesus made a way for God to look past our wrong doing, sin, and invite us in. As we are. I once heard a pastor share a great analogy. He said, "Do you wash up before you take a shower?" We are free to come to God in the very condition we're in. Don't hold back out of fear you're not good enough. You are. Not because of what you've done, but because of what He's done.
Meredith Andrews did a very nice job of articulating this in her new song; "You Invite Me In" It's found on her "The Invitation" CD and you're hearing it on Family Friendly Radio. If you, like me, struggled or are struggling with your self worth, can I have just a moment to encourage you? God does love you! And, He is not ashamed of you! If I can be praying for you, please don't hesitate to let me know. You can email me today at; joeb@newlifemedia.org
If you want to know more about Meredith Andrews or hear this song now, please click here: http://www.meredithandrews.com/ No matter where you've been or what you've done, God already knows and He still loves you and longs to be with you. He is waiting patiently for you to take Him up on His invitation.

Songs from this CD you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "You're Not Alone" & "You Invite Me In"

Going Through The Motions...

2009-02-06T10:20:00.000-08:00

Does life ever feel like your on a bike going down a hill at a hundred miles an hour, doing everything you can to keep from wiping out? Sometimes, it feels like I'm using every ounce of strength I have to just keep the handle bars steady. Life can be so stressful. And, it comes at you fast! There are so many different things pulling at us from so many different directions. Many times, It can be quite difficult, and sometimes almost impossible, to devote the necessary attention to each detail of our lives. And, if we're not careful, we can begin to compromise different aspects of our lives. We can start "going through the motions" in the smaller details that consume our lives. Then, before we know it, the majority of what we do consist of just motions. The thing is, the more we go through the "motions" the less we are able to feel. Then, life slowly becomes less and less about living and more about just getting through each day. We've all been there, at one point or another, right? I find myself there from time to time in different areas of my life. It's like I'm on autopilot. At the time it doesn't seem like that big of a deal, but in looking back I can see how much I missed out on. I don't want to miss out anymore! That's one, of many, reason I love the new Matthew West song, "The Motions." Matthew does a great job of articulating what I'm going through when I find myself fighting off falling back into autopilot. It's a daily challenge to step outside the "just get me through this day" and start to live again. I also love Matthew's heart and appreciate his desire to use his music as a tool to impact people's lives. If you would like to, also, say "No more going through the motions," please click here; http://www.matthewwest.com/motions/ And, if you wouldn't mind, please share your story. Your story will inspire others to take that step beyond "The Motions!"

What's In A Name?

2009-01-16T12:40:00.000-08:00

Ever heard a song on the radio by a group and wondered, "Where in the world did they get that name and what does it mean?" Recently we began playing a song by a new group called, Dizmas. And, even though there has been a very positive response to the song, many are wondering what the name of the group means and what were they thinking when they chose it. Well, I did a little research and discovered something pretty cool about this name and why. Here is their explanation...

The name also stems from the character scholars cite as the thief (who had a change of heart just before death) crucified next to Jesus Christ. We look to that historic figure as a symbol of forgiveness, redemption and hope that governs our life and serves as a primary solution to the search we’ve so diligently embarked upon.

Pretty cool, right? Yea, that's what I thought, too. And I learned something new. I had no idea of the name of the thief that we grew up hearing so much about. Anyhow, the group didn't stop with just a cool name, they produce some great music, too! I believe "Yours" will become a favorite of yours! For your convenience I've included a few links to learn more about Dizmas.

1. http://www.1cubed.com/display.php?ID=348&sectionID=26
2. http://www.breathecast.com/Christian.Music.Artist-Dizmas/Article-386_2538.htm
3. http://www.alrcnewskitchen.com/cure/docs/release18.pdf
4. http://www.ccmmagazine.com/music/artist/dizmas/

OTHER NEW MUSIC NOW PLAYING ON FAMILY FRIENDLY RADIO...
(New music I truly believe you're gonna love!)

1. Francesca Battistelli - "Free To be Me" - From the artist who brought us "I'm Letting Go," delivers an incredible new upbeat song from her CD; "My Paper Heart"

2. Tenth Avenue North - "By Your Side" - You loved their first song, "Love Is Here!" I think this one's even better.

COMING SOON...
(Be listening for these to start playing very, very soon!)

1. Mercy Me - "Finally Home" - MercyMe has released some of the greatest music of our lifetime. A common theme throughout their music centers around the hope of one day being reunited with our loved ones who have passed on. This song is no exception as it takes a forward glance into what it may be like to one day reach our destination.

2. Jamie Slocum - "Dependence" - An accomplished songwriter/producer, Jamie is no stranger to radio. He's landed several top 10 hits over the years, including "Grace Changes Everything","Wounded","By Your Side" and others. His new song comes from a self titled CD due out this spring and tackles a very timely subject about surrendering our dependence to God.

3. Lincoln Brewster - "God You Reign" - Responsible for many of the songs we sing in church each week, this new song is sure to become a worship favorite. A worship leader at his church and one of the best guitarists I've ever seen, Lincoln's love for his savior is more than evident in this new song.

If you ever have any questions about the music you hear, or don't hear, please feel free to drop me a line. I would love to hear from you. joeb@wbgl.org

Christmas Music

2008-11-20T09:44:00.000-08:00

5. BETHLEHEM SKYLINE - Featuring Various Artists (Downhere, Jason Grey, Jaime Jamgochian and others) - Ok, it's no secret that I love Downhere! In fact, their latest studio CD "Ending Is Beginning" is one of my top 5 CDs of 2008! So when I saw they had a couple of Christmas songs on a compilation CD, I just had to have it! Yes, the Downhere songs are great, but the rest of the CD lives up to those songs, too. In fact, this CD is so good, that it gave us an opportunity to introduce you to Circleslide and Daniel Kirkley through a couple of their Christmas songs found on this CD. And, even though the CD is incredible from start to finish, the Downhere song "How Many Kings" litterally knocked me over. Like the others on this list, this CD is great!
Songs you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "How Many Kings " - Downhere, "Joy To the World" - Circleslide, "Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas" - Daniel Kirkley, "O Come O Come Emmanuel" - Jaime Jamgocian, "Glory To God In The Highest" - Downhere & "O Come All Ye Faithful" - Downhere and friends.

6. MercyMe - " The Christmas Sessions" - MercyMe through the years has become one of your all time favorite groups. They've released great CD after great CD, with chart topping hits like "I Can Only Imagine", "God With Us", "Homesick", "Word of God Speak" and many, many others. And, this CD is no exception. Not abandoning their sound, they incorporate it wonderfully into this amazing Christmas project. From the very first track through the last song you will not be disappointed. You've already began to fall in love with "Gloria", "What Child Is This", "O Holy Night" and your favorite, an original contribution; "Joseph's Lullaby" "The Christmas Sessions" would have to be one my top 5 Christmas CDs ever.
Songs you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "Joseph's Lullaby", "Gloria", "What Child Is This", "O Holy Night", "God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen" & "Silent Night"

Merry Christmas...

So Much To Be Thankful For...

2008-11-18T14:59:00.000-08:00

I saw a national poll the other day that said 67% of Americans are unhappy. I can't turn on the news for more than a second, these days, without feeling like the world is crashing down. There are so many things to be unhappy about....right?
I once heard a story about a King who was ill. To find healing, he needed to acquire the shirt off the back of someone sincerely happy. So his servants searched and searched and couldn't find anyone who was truly happy. Sure, they found people who were laughing and having a good time, but not really happy. Finally, after a long search, they searched a place they least expected to find someone happy - the poorest neighborhood in the kingdom. But, to their surprise, they found a man who was sincerely happy! There was only one problem, he didn't even own a shirt!
Maybe it's time to turn off the TV and make a list of things we're truly grateful for. In doing this it's quite amazing what makes the list after you get past the surface things. Things we haven't consciously thanked God for in a long time. No matter our circumstance, we do have so much to be thankful for and through that thankfulness comes true happiness. I think we have to delete the things we've been taught about being happy. It really is a choice. A choice that belongs to each of us. I know life can get quite difficult. I know there are times when the light at the end of the tunnel turns out to be a freight train. Times when the future looks quite bleak. But, I also know the one who holds that future. The one who asks us to trust in the Lord with all our heart and lean not on our own understanding. I love that verse in Proverbs. Lean not on your own understanding - my understanding of things can quite often make me very anxious. Maybe that's why God said it - and then advised us to not be anxious about anything - Philippians 4. No matter your situation, my prayer is that you will be able to find true happiness this Thanksgiving and Christmas season. We do have so much to be thankful for!

Slow Down...Please!

2008-10-07T11:18:00.001-07:00

Just last week, we celebrated my daughter's eighth birthday. I remember, like it was yesterday, holding her for the first time. Praying; "Lord, please help me be a great father and guide me in raising her and please, Jesus, let her come to know you." I remember thinking about how fast it was going to go, but never could have imagined it would seem this fast. Tara and I had decided when our daughter was about two months old that we would wait until she was eight to have her ears pierced. At the time it seemed like a lifetime away. And yet, it was one night just last month I was walking toward my daughter's room to tuck her in and overheard her conversation with Tara. They were talking about earrings. As I walked into the room, I asked with a smile "What are you two discussing earrings for, you're not getting your ears pierced until you're..." Then it dawned on me. I knew she was about to turn eight, but didn't realize she was about to turn eight!
A couple of weeks later, we took the entire family to witness the ear piercing and then for our traditional birthday ice cream outing. As I stood there watching her hold tightly to Tara's hand, I couldn't help but grow slightly sad. If these eight years went that fast, how much faster are the next eight going to go? To further complicate my feelings, eight years from right now, she'll be the age her mom was when we started dating. I'm definitely not ready for that! How the memories started to rush in. Instantly, I started to remember so many things we've done together, the special moments, the milestones, the laughter, even the tears! At that moment, they served as yet another reminder of how important it is to make the days count. They are numbered. And, although the years will fly by, we have control of the days that make up those years! God's amazing! He has answered our prayer so many times over. If these next eight years are even half as wonderful as the first, it will be pretty awesome! Sure, these next eight years will have their own set of challenges, difficulties, but, also their own beautiful moments.
I really do wish there was a way to slow time down. But, looking back with as little regret as possible, will be far more valuable than seemingly more time. In the meantime, I will continue to ask God to help me, do my best, to make the most of each day.

60/60 Revolution...

2008-08-12T07:21:00.001-07:00

Have you ever been in that moment where you learn of someone else's idea and thought to yourself, "Why didn't I think of that?" Well, I was sitting in church this past Sunday, enjoying the service, when pastor started talking about this revolutionary idea. An idea so simple, yet so profound. The 60/60 Revolution. An idea conceived by a pastor at a church in Texas. The idea is to allow God to penetrate the busyness, stress, even privacy of our everyday lives, everyday - every hour. To spend a few moments in prayer at the top of each hour every single day. The concept is based on John 15:4-5. "Remain in me and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself, it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. I am the vine and you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him he will bear much fruit. Apart from me you can do nothing."
Those that have completed the challenge had reported that their lives will never be the same. God has a way of blessing our efforts to grow close to Him. Can I encourage you to take this challenge with me? Here's what you need. A few moments every hour and a way to remind yourself. It's that simple. Everything else will fall into place.

Here is the challenge:
For the next 60 days, try to stay in a continuous, honest conversation with God, willing to do His will, moment by moment. Set a watch or alarm clock to beep every 60 minutes and put up sticky notes and reminders around your home, car and office as a reminder to stay connected. Try to turn your thoughts back to God all throughout the day, as often as you can. This simple conscious contact with God isn't easy, but if you do, you'll start to see everything else begin to fall into place over time. Even if you're not yet convinced, this does work. Try it. Every 60 minutes, stop and recall "God is with me right now" And let that propel you to ask God "Show me your Will this next moment. I want to be willing to do your Will as an act of love toward you."

If you are planning on taking this challenge, would you please let me know? Simply drop me a line at joeb@newlifemedia.org - Thanks!

I can't take any credit for this incredible idea- I am merely jumping on a revolutionary thought process encouraged by the leadership of my church. I'm extremely grateful for the pastoral staff at my church and I appreciate the way they are continually challenging me to grow!

In the Moment...

2008-06-06T08:35:00.001-07:00

It never ceases to amaze me how fast time seems to slip by at an increasing pace. With each passing year, time appears to move faster than the year before. If only someone had warned me when I was younger. I spent so much time living just beyond the moment I was in. Biding my time, just existing, until the next great moment arrived. You know, that moment, event, or happening that would, of course, be the best thing ever! That's how I would build it up in my mind. And the closer I would get to the event, the bigger and better it would become in my head. This would lead to such depression, because no matter what it was, that I was waiting for, it always went by much too fast and never quite lived up to my grand expectations. In fact, on many occasions, the "looking forward" was more enjoyable than the event itself. More and more I found myself increasingly disappointed. This was until I met my wife, Tara, 16 years ago, today. A day that I had been looking forward to and anticipating about for the better part of the prior month. I can remember that day like it was yesterday. It's hard to imagine there was a time when I was nervous about being with Tara. The awkward first days together. I had been to her house many times over the previous several months. I had had conversations with her parents and several occasions. I had been out with Tara with others from the youth group. But, this was different. This was a date. As I walked to her front door, I had to walk past the garage. This particular day, Tara's dad was working in the garage. Not because he had stuff to do, but that he was going to be the first line of defense between me and his daughter. I had never, on any occasion, felt intimidated by her dad, until this day. I remember the stern look he gave me as he said "There are three thing you'll know if you're going to take out my daughter. First, you'll treat her like a lady. Two, you will have her in on time. And, three, if your car leaks oil, get it off my drive!" My car didn't leak oil, but I wasn't taking any chances, I didn't park on the drive for a long time thereafter. This was truly one of the first days in my entire life that lived up to the expectations I had created in my mind. And, I can honestly tell you that with each passing year, it gets better and better.
Sure, Like many of us, I still find myself from time to time living outside the moment I'm in. But, during those times, God will use Tara or my kids to gently remind me to live "in the moment."

To Serve You Better...

2008-04-29T10:48:00.001-07:00

I recently had the privilege to attend Gospel Music Association week (GMA) in Nashville, TN. While there, it dawned on me that this was my 13th trip to GMA. It really doesn't seem like it was all that long ago that I ventured out on my maiden journey to the Music City. I can remember my first trip like it was yesterday. It's hard to forget how out of place I felt and how terribly green I was. I had so much to learn. As I made my way through the busy, but wonderful week, this year, I found myself reminiscing about those first years. It's fun to think back and look at how far I've grown. Yet, the more I learn the more I realize how little I really do know. God is continually challanging me to do a better job at His purpose in my life. Although there are many things similar to those first few years, like the hotel, the city itself, and so many faces, a lot has changed. A few artist still stroll through the hotel lobby familiar to my early days, but most are a new crop birthed in the last 10 years or so. Music has changed. The face of music has changed. And, the way we do radio has changed. I remember those first few years being a lot about "me." How do I do it better? How do I make a difference? How do I play the best music? Although those questions can seem harmless, and sure there was also a focus on God, but still I felt there was something missing.
That was until about 6 years ago when I noticed a shift in focus at GMA. A shift not only in the industry, but also in me. It was no longer all about me, but more about you. Yea, YOU! Believe it or not, you've play a much bigger role than you might think. That's because we better understood God's calling on us to serve you. And, once we began to understand where God was leading, well, there was just no turning back. This year's GMA was all about YOU! You have more power than you may realize. It's you that makes a song a hit or not. With an increasing number of radio stations relying on input from their listeners, the charts are actually influenced by your opinion. As artists better understand what you're looking for, they are now recording songs to better serve you. You are also influencing songs radio stations decided to play. Here, at Family Friendly Radio, we have experienced some amazing success over the past several years. Of course, all Glory goes to God, but so much "Thanks" to you. God has used YOU to help us get to where He is leading. And I believe we've only touched the tip of the iceberg.
You are significant! God has an amazing purpose for your life. And, maybe a small part of that plan would be to help determine the direction for the future of Christian Music. And, it's really easy! It takes just minutes a week, a few weeks a month! Plus, to top it all off, it can be done right in the privacy of your own home. All you need to do is join our Music Advisory Panel today. It's free and there are never any strings attached. You could also win some very cool prizes just for being a panel member. For more information about joining this amazing team and help determine which songs get played, please check out our website or email me today; joeb@newlifemedia.org

It Is Worth Fighting For?

2008-04-02T16:43:00.000-07:00

Last year, my wife and I received devastating news from some friends we admired. I remember when we were first married, how we looked up to them. They had a kind of marriage that we desired. Or, so we thought. If there were ever a couple beyond the risk of breaking up, it was these two. No doubt about it. So what happened? Well, I could share with you the details surrounding the final moments of their marriage. But, it wouldn't shed any light as to what really caused the decay of the relationship. It would be nothing more than the final images of the destruction. so, what really happened? Somewhere along the way one or both decided to stop fighting. I'm not referring to bickering and such. I'm talking about the desire to make the marriage work no matter how difficult it becomes. There was no infidelity or abuse in this marriage. Just a subtle decision that it wasn't worth working at anymore. The struggle to keep it going was no longer worth it. And, it wasn't a decision that was made one day, it was something that crept in and slowly took control of their marriage until it had completely stripped the life from it. The symptoms were there, just below the surface out of site. We do an amazing job designing masks to hide what's really going on. So, even though it came as a complete shock to my wife and I, this relationship had been in trouble for a very long time.
It made us take a deeper look at our marriage. To make sure we're always on guard for anything that can sneak in and begin to bring decay to our relationship. To regularly come back to our foundation, Christ, and spend time together on our knees seeking guidance. To not allow the word "Divorce" to enter our vocabulary at any time. To understand that it is not an option. And to know no matter how bad it gets, it's always worth fighting for!
With one out of every two marriages ending with divorce these days, it can sometimes feel like fewer and fewer couples are doing any good fighting at all anymore. Plus, with recent law changes, marriage has become one of the easiest contracts to void. In fact, in most states you don't even need the consent of both people to end the contract. And with "No Fault" divorce, you don't even have to have a good reason to call it quits.
That's why I believe Warren Barfield's new song "Love Is Not A Fight" is so timely. It's not only a song I believe you'll soon fall in love with, but also a great reminder that when things get tough in our marriages, they are worth fighting for! I love the line, "If we try to leave; May God send angels to guard the door." I can't wait for you to start hearing this song on the radio this week. I just know you're going to love it! And, speaking of that, I love knowing your opinion about the music we play. In fact, you can have your opinion heard by joining our Music Advisory Panel. It's free! Check out our station's website to find out more or to get signed up! Also, if you want to know more about Warren Barfield or hear this incredible new song, please check out his Myspace page; http://www.myspace.com/warrenbarfield

If you're marriage is in trouble, please seek help from someone you can trust, who is in love with Jesus and believes the Bible to be the manual for how to handle your situation. If I can be praying for you, please don't hesitate to let me know; joeb@newlifemedia.org Your marriage is worth fighting for!

You're Not Alone...

2008-03-14T15:57:00.000-07:00

It's actually quite amazing how we can be completely surrounded by people, even friends, and still feel so all alone. Whether we're facing pain form the past or currently walking through difficult situations, many times we can't escape those, sometimes, suffocating experiences of feeling lonely. I remember walking through stretches in my life when I would do almost anything, reasonable and legal, to take that lonely feeling away. My escape was to watch movies. I watched a ton of them and all the time. But, inevitably at the end of each movie, the loneliness that I was able to numb always made it's way back around. It really wasn't until I started consistently giving my pain to Jesus, that I began to find freedom. And, I can't take any credit. I wouldn't have found the way out on my own. God put some pretty smart people in my path willing to sacrificially pray for me and help guide me. I thank God for those true friends. And, sure, there are days when those lonely feelings can rear their ugly head, but God has taught me to hold tightly to Him. I don't always get it right and I have a ton to learn yet - but God is patient and I know He is at work and no matter what happens or how I feel, I'm truly never alone.
If you can relate at all, I know a song you just have to hear! In fact, from the very first time I heard this song I was blown away! It's one of those songs that just lifts you up. It's called "You're Not Alone" by Meredith Andrews. You can hear it now, by visiting Meredith's Mypace page. Although I love the song - my opinion isn't as important as yours. Please let me know what you think, by joining our Music Advisory Panel. Thanks!
When you get time, please let me know how this song or any other song we play has impacted your life. And, if there is ever anything I can be praying for you about - please don't hesitate to let me know. You can drop me a line anytime at; joeb@newlifemedia.org.

Lower My Bills, Please...

2008-03-07T12:03:00.000-08:00

So, earlier this week I talked about an article I read at ehow.com on how to lower your monthly bills. Outside of getting a ton of emails, I also took the challenge. And, I'm pleased to say that after about 20 minutes on the phone, I was able to save nearly $40/month without losing very much at all. Most companies were more than willing to work with me right away. "So you want to lower your bill without losing any services" is what one operator said. "Sure, that would be great!" was my response. "Let's see what we can do for you today, Mr. Buchanan." All I can say, is if you haven't yet tried this, please check out this link to find out more about how to lower your monthly bills. Lower my bills

Breakfast with Matt...

2008-02-12T09:23:00.000-08:00

It's not everyday I can work a breakfast meeting into my schedule. And, looking at my planner this week, it was going to be even more difficult. But, I enjoy meeting new people. Besides, the work will still be waiting for me when I'm done. Anyhow, this morning I had the opportunity to have breakfast with Matt Maher. Now, you may not recognize his name, but you probably love some of his music. In fact, you've probably sang a song of his a time or two before. Like "Your Grace Is Enough" a song, actually recorded by Chris Tomlin, that has become a favorite among worship leaders across the country and all over the world. Matt also co-wrote another song you love, "On the Third Day" by Michael Olson.
So, over pancakes and eggs we talked about his life, his past and where God is taking him. We discussed "Lost" (of course) plus some other great music we both enjoy and his new CD coming out this spring called "Empty & Beautiful." The more we talked, the more I wanted to know. Matt's story is quite amazing! It continues to blow me away how God has each of our lives delicately balanced. If we'll just trust Him, oh the things He'll do through us. Matt was born in Canada and after his parents divorced, he moved to the States. It was here that his cousin took him to church and began the journey that would lead Matt to where he is today. After giving his heart to Christ, Matt began to chase after the desires that God placed within him. From leading worship to recording independent CDs, Matt patiently waited on the Lord to direct him. I found myself more and more excited about the future God has for Matt and how he is already being used to impact lives through his incredible music. I can't wait to introduce him to you through his version of "Your Grace Is Enough" which will be on the radio soon. I the meantime, if you would like to know more about Matt, please check out his myspace page; http://www.myspace.com/mattmahermusic
You can also check out his music while you're there! You'll be glad you did. And, as always, please feel free to let me know what you think. Enjoy!

Tenth Avenue North...

2008-02-11T09:28:00.001-08:00

I can't wait for you to hear a great new song from a great new group! The song is called "Love Is Here" and it's by newcomers Tenth Avenue North. There is a lot of buzz surrounding this new group and sure the typical things that get said are true. For instance, they have a fresh sound, great dynamics, incredible vocals and phenomenal song writing. But, it doesn't appear to stop there. A great deal of buzz surrounding this group has to do with the type of people it's made up of. Mike, Jeff, Jason and Scott. Not unlike many other Christian bands, these guys love the Lord. But, there's something more than meets the eye with these guys. They really know their Bible and it's translated loud and clear through their encouraging and uplifting music. I know you are gonna fall in love with these guys as you get to know them. Be listening for their first radio single - "Love Is Here" You will start hearing it this week and it's from their debut CD "Over And Underneath" coming out in May. This will be one of those songs that has the ability to hold your memories of today, tomorrow. I look forward to hearing your thoughts about this song as you begin to hear it! If you want to hear right now, please click here; http://www.myspace.com/tenthavenuenorth

Other great songs you'll want to be listening for are the new ones from DecembeRadio "Find You Waiting" and 33Miles "Thank You"

Cinderella

2008-01-18T10:20:00.000-08:00

My wife, daughter, son and I all sat down and watched the movie Hook a couple of nights ago. My wife and I had screened it a couple of nights earlier just to make sure it was appropriate for our kids. And, outside of a few moments in need of fast forwarding, it was a good movie. It was fun to watch my kids reaction through out the film. My son has been a huge Peter Pan fan for the better part of a year and my daughter loves Tinkerbell. It brought a smile to my face watching the way my daughter could barely contain her excitement when Tinkerbell made her first appearance. And, the way my son got so animated during the battle between Peter Pan and Captain Hook. But, the movie was more that just entertaining. I couldn't help but feel warned by the life lessons taught throughout the dialog of this movie. Cherish the time we have with our kids. It's really only for a few brief years that we have them as kids. I took note when Moria said to Peter "The kids are growing up, and you're missing it." I don't want to miss it. Once these years are gone, they can't be regained. That's one of the reasons I'm always looking for memory building activities for the family. In fact, I'm really looking forward to a very special evening planned with my daughter. In a couple of weeks we'll be attending a Cinderella ball together. It should prove to be an evening that lives on within our memories for a lifetime. She is so excited about it, she talks about it all the time. In fact, just yesterday we were discussing what we are going to wear to the ball and, out of the blue, she said, "I hope they play 'Cinderella' at the ball. " She was referring to Steven Curtis Chapman's new song from his CD "This Moment." She loves the song and would love to dance with daddy, at the ball, during that song. As I watched her face become so full of life while sharing her idea with me, I got a little sad at how fast she is growing. Sure, I'm excited about her becoming the woman God created her to be, but secretly wish it would move just a little slower. We just have to make the most of these moments. That's why I know you're going to love "Cinderella" by Steven Curtis Chapman! It is sure to become one of your favorites in record time. It really is a beautiful song carrying a gentle reminder to take breaks from our busy lives and spend time with our most precious gifts while they are still "here in our ams!" If you haven't heard it yet, you will. Keep listening to Family Friendly Radio! If you want to hear it right now, click here; http://www.myspace.com/stevencurtischapman

Steven Curtis Chapman
Album: "This Moment"
New Single: "Cinderella"
Website: http://www.stevencurtischapman.com/

The Broken Garage Door

2008-01-08T07:20:00.000-08:00

Sometimes it seems as though things are not always as they seem. Let me explain. About a month ago, while backing out of my driveway, I closed my garage door as normal. The door came down about half way and just stopped. Didn't go back up, no blinking light to indicate something was wrong, it just stopped. I got out of my car and doubled checked the track . After finding no obstruction, I hit the button again and the door came back up and stopped as normal. So, very cautiously, I hit the button again. Big mistake. This time, instead of stopping at the same point it had before, the opener tried to close the door all the way. I'm still not sure what kept it from closing, but the opener completely mangled the panels of my door making it impossible to close. After taking a deep breath and then fully assessing the situation, an unsettling realization set in - this problem was bigger than me. After praying a moment, I called a friend over and we spent several hours working just to get the door closed. My friend, Tim, is actually a pretty smart guy! Still, there was no question, this door had to be replaced. To complicate things, it was December and Christmas was coming. This timing couldn't have been worse. I found myself starting to stress about where the money was going to come from. Not to mention the fact that the thought of having to replace a garage door never crossed my mind. I knew God would take care of it, but, this was going to be, at the very least, inconvenient. Even still, I was worried about it. That was until a couple of days later when my 4 year old son, Stevie, says, "I wish the garage door was broken again." At first I was taken back by this. Why in the world would he want the door broken? Then it dawned on me. When Tim and I were working on the door that night, I enlisted Steve's help. He got to hang out with the "guys" and spend some quality time with dad. It made him feel so special. He loved it. You know, it's kinda funny actually. I'm always looking for ways to spend quality, memory building, time as an investment in my kid's lives. One reason, is that I know our time together is going to be like a vapor and gone long before I'm ready. And, here in the midst of what I perceive to be an awful situation, is one of those very wonderful moments. I guess it just depends from what perspective you're looking. I now find myself thanking God for helping me, without me even knowing it, turn a potentially very stressful situation into a wonderful and lasting memory for my son and I. I'm so grateful that He used my 4 year old son to teach me a lot through this experience. Next time I can only hope I remember to, at least, take a peek from different perspective before I allow myself to become stressed out. God is truly awesome! And, yeah, I'm actually thanking God for the broken garage door.

New Year, New Music!

2008-01-02T09:04:00.000-08:00

Wow, it's 2008! I can remember as a child thinking about the year 2000 and how it felt like forever away. Now, I find myself 8 years on the other side and life continues to move faster and faster. One "Resolution" I have for this year is to slow down a little and try to spend more quality time with my wife and kids, do more meaningful things for the Kingdom and enjoy each fleeting moment just a little more. When I think about 2007, there are so many highlights that come to mind.

One very fun highlight was an evening I spent with Steve Fee. We were supposed to have dinner together, but the plans fell through when he got tickets to a Cubs/Reds game at Wrigley Field. It turns out that Steve is friends with Tom Hume, pitching coach for the reds, and got incredible seats to the game. Hoping I wouldn't be too disappointed about having to cancel our dinner (and not knowing I'm a HUGE Cubs fan) he asked if I would be interested in attending the game. "Are you kidding?" To top it off, it was at the end of the season and the Cubs were in a race for the playoffs! What a great game! I watched Soriano throw out a runner at the plate in the 7th inning and the Cubs eventually won the game! To be a part of that celebration as they blasted "Go Cubs Go" throughout the stadium was unbelievable! As I was driving home that night, I found myself thinking back over the incredible evening. Yes, the game was pretty awesome, but, getting to know Steve was the highlight of the evening. And, almost getting lost in the excitement was the fact that Steve is in a band called Fee. Fee is signed to INO Records, the same record company that brought you great songs from groups like MercyMe, 33Miles, Phillips, Craig & Dean and so many others. Fee has a new CD, which Steve gave me a copy of that night, called "We Shine" and it is very, very good. I listened to it all the way home from the Cubs' game and have been listening to it ever since. I love it! You've also been hearing "Glorious One" during our Sunday Morning Praise and now you'll start hearing their new single "All Because Of Jesus", a song that Steve Fee wrote and Casting Crowns also recorded for their newest CD; "The Alter and the Door" I can't wait for you to hear this song, because I know you're going to love it!

Other great new songs you'll be hearing over the next month or so are "Captivated" by Shawn McDonald, Sanctus Real's "We Need Each Other", Brit Nicole "Set the World on Fire" and the incredible "Cinderella" from Steven Curtis Chapman.

As always, your opinion is extremely important to me! If you want to help shape the sound of your favorite Family Friendly Radio Station, please join our Music Advisory Panel and let me know what you think about, not only these songs as you hear them, but about any song we're playing! Thanks and, again, Happy New Year!

New Christmas Music...

2007-12-04T14:17:00.000-08:00

I turned around the other day and it was December! Where did 2007 go? We decorated the house last week and the whole time I kept thinking "Didn't I just put these decorations away?" Did I mention that I love this time of year? I do. It hasn't always been this way, but ever since my children have been around, this has really become my favorite time of year. Watching them fill with such excitement even before we pull out the first box of decorations. And, it always lasts well beyond the much anticipated Christmas morning. They love this time of year! And one thing they love more than anything else, about this time of year, is the Christmas music. I guess they are a lot like their dad! We are really blessed this year with some great new Christmas music. In fact, if you're looking to add a little or a lot to your Christmas music collection or if you have a music lover on your Christmas list - then there is great news for you! Here are a few of the new Christmas CDS I find myself really falling in love with!

1. MICHAEL W. SMITH - "It's A Wonderful Christmas" - Recorded in London at Abby Road Studios with a 65-piece orchestra and 4 Choirs, this CD is really, really good. If there were an official "Movie" soundtrack for the Christmas Season - this would be it!
Songs from this CD you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "Christmas Angels" & "Christmas Day" - duet with Mandisa

2. RELIENT K - "Let It Snow Baby...Let It Reindeer" - My roots cause me to lean a little more to the rock side, which is one reason I'm really loving this new one from Relient K. Plus, your kids are sure to love it, too.
Songs from this CD you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas" & "Merry Christmas, Here's To Many More"

3. BEBO NORMAN - "Christmas...From the Realms Of Glory" - The first time I ever saw Bebo live was at a Third Day concert many years ago. From the moment he started the song "Great Light Of the World" I became a Bebo fan! I was blown away that day and continue to be blessed by his music. If you, too, are a Bebo fan, then you are going to love this CD.
Songs you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "Christmastime Is Here","What Child Is This?" & "O Come Emmanuel"

4. JARS OF CLAY - "Christmas Songs" - Jars of Clay, for a long time now, have owned my favorite versions of two Christmas songs. "Little Drummer Boy" & "God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen." That coupled with my love for their last studio CD "Good Monsters" I found myself excited to hear their new Christmas CD. And, I was not disappointed. From start to finish this CD is great.
Songs you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "Wonderful Christmastime"& "Love Came Down At Christmas"

5. BETHLEHEM SKYLINE - Featuring Various Artists (Downhere, Jason Grey, Jaime Jamgochian and others) - Ok, it's no secret that I love Downhere! In fact, their latest studio CD "Wide Eyed & Mystified" is my favorite CD of 2007! So when I saw they had a couple of Christmas songs on a compilation CD, I just had to have it! Yes, the Downhere songs are great, but the rest of the CD lives up to those songs, too. In fact, this CD is so good, that it gave us an opportunity to introduce you to Circleslide and Daniel Kirkley through a couple of their Christmas songs found on this CD. And, even though the CD is incredible from start to finish, the Downhere song "How Many Kings" litterally knocked me over. Like the others on this list, this CD is great!
Songs you're hearing on Family Friendly Radio: "How Many Kings " - Downhere, "Joy To the World" - Circleslide, "Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas" - Daniel Kirkley, "O Come O Come Emmanuel" - Jaime Jamgocian, "Glory To God In The Highest" - Downhere & "O Come All Ye Faithful" - Downhere and friends.

Merry Christmas...